Beyond Apparent
Central Baptist Church Dunn, NC
God has called parents to be the primary disciple makers of their children, but how do we find clarity to parent Biblically in an increasingly confusing world? Join Jeremy Autry and Chuck Meade, the student pastor and children’s pastor of Central Baptist Church of Dunn, NC, as they have real conversations and interview special guests to seek God’s direction for each stage of the parenting journey.
Episodes
Episode 083 - Unified in Your Parenting
Parents often disagree about how to handle their kids—but when those differences turn into division, it can create instability in the home. In this episode, Chuck and Jeremy discuss why unity between parents is essential for raising healthy, mature teenagers. Drawing from principles in Boundaries with Teens and grounded in Scripture, they talk about how parents can provide both love and limits, avoid being divided by their kids, and work together to create a stable, Christ-centered home.
Episode 082 - Kids Need Parents with Boundaries
In this episode of Beyond Apparent, Jeremy and Chuck discuss why children need more than affection — they need clear, consistent limits. Drawing from Boundaries with Kids, they explore how consequences build maturity, how inconsistency breeds insecurity, and why parents must model the boundaries they expect. We’re not raising children who answer to us forever — but future adults who answer to the Lord.
Episode 081 - A Look Back on The Impact of Christian Music in Your Home with Darren Hughes
In this episode, Chuck and Jeremy talk with Worship Pastor Darren Hughes about the influence of Christian music on our children and the significance of filling your household with songs that worship our Creator and Savior.
Episode 080 - A Look Back On Filtering Family Fun: A Parent's Guide to VidAngel
In this brief episode, Jeremy and Chuck share an excellent resource for families. VidAngel can be connected to popular streaming services empowering parents to control the content displayed on their TVs.Find out more info at: https://www.vidangel.com
Episode 079 - New Seasons: Transitioning into Adulthood
In this episode, Chuck and Jeremy talk about the big transition from high school into adulthood and how parents can encourage their kids to embrace faith as their own. Whether they’re heading off to college, starting a job, or staying local, this season is about helping them pursue godly relationships, build spiritual rhythms, and step confidently into adult discipleship.
Episode 078 - New Seasons: Transitioning into Middle School
Middle school brings big changes—new questions, new pressures, and shifting relationships. In part 2 of our “Transitions” series, we talk about how to help your child root their identity in Christ, build habits that last, and stay connected to church and family through this pivotal season.
Episode 077 - New Seasons: Transitioning into Kindergarten
In this episode, Chuck and Jeremy kick off a new three-part series on transitions by talking about a significant milestone in your child’s life: starting kindergarten. Whether you’re just now walking into this season or it’s already behind you, this conversation matters. We’ll explore how this moment is a powerful test of faith for parents, how to establish spiritual rhythms at home, and how to help your child engage with worship, as well as what it looks like to bring them along in church life at this age.
Episode 076 - Talking to Your Kids about Death with Jessie Johnson
Chuck and Jeremy wrap up the series on having difficult conversations with your kids on one of the most challenging topics: death. They welcome local funeral director Jessie Johnson, who offers a distinctive viewpoint. During the episode, they explore how children perceive grief differently than adults and how parents can prepare to respond to their challenging questions.
Episode 075 - A Look Back on the Importance of Mission Trips
With Pastor Jeremy and a team of over 70 people from Central Baptist Church on a missions trip to Montana, we are re-airing an old episode on the importance of mission trips. Research indicates that engaging in mission trips and projects significantly contributes to a child's spiritual development. Chuck and Jeremy, both gearing up for mission trips, talk about the crucial role of discussing missions with your children and providing them the opportunity to participate in one before they graduate.
Episode 074 - Talking to Your Kids about Racism
In this episode, Chuck and Jeremy discuss one of today’s most challenging conversations: how to talk with your kids about race, racism, and social justice from a Biblical perspective. Parents will be encouraged to navigate cultural tension with gospel truth, see racism ultimately as a sin issue, break down the difference between cultural justice and Biblical justice, and lead their families with empathy and discernment.
Episode 073 - Talking to Your Kids about Gender
How do Christian parents talk to their kids about gender in a world that says truth is not determined by God but fluid? Jeremy and Chuck Meade break it down with biblical clarity, cultural insight, and real-life stories. This episode equips parents to speak the truth in love, ask the right questions, and lead their kids with confidence and compassion.
Episode 072 - Talking to Your Kids about Marriage
In this episode, Chuck and Jeremy equip parents to confidently talk to their kids about God’s design for marriage in a culture that promotes confusion. We compare the world’s view vs. God’s view, discuss why marriage is a covenant, not just a contract, and provide practical ways to teach kids Biblical truth with love and grace.
Episode 071 - A Look Back at Parenting in the Middle
We look back on a conversation Jeremy and Chuck had about "parenting in the middle." When our kids are young, we make all the decisions for them. When they are adults, they make all the decisions themselves. How do we help our kids transition to adulthood while prioritizing their safety? Chuck and Jeremy delve into parenting in the middle as a slow transition to teaching our kids how to make their own decisions.
Episode 070 - Talking to Your Kids about Sex
Culture bombards kids with distorted views on sex—but as parents, we have the responsibility to lead them in truth. In this episode, Chuck and Jeremy unpack the biggest cultural lies about sex, contrast them with God’s design, and equip you to have honest, ongoing conversations with your kids. With practical tips and biblical wisdom, you’ll gain the confidence to guide your child with both truth and grace.
Episode 069 - Talking to Your Kids about Abortion
Chuck and Jeremy launch a series on having tough conversations with your kids by exploring, in this episode, how to discuss abortion with children from a Christian pro-life perspective. It emphasizes Biblical principles, scientific facts, and countering cultural narratives with truth and empathy. Parents are encouraged to use age-appropriate language, highlight forgiveness and redemption, support life-affirming efforts, and lead by example in valuing all human life.
Episode 068 - Why You Should Have Hard Conversations with Your Kids
Our culture effectively communicates to our kids how to think about controversial subjects. In this episode, Chuck and Jeremy discuss why parents shouldn’t avoid these uncomfortable but essential conversations with their kids about sensitive topics.
Episode 067 - A Look Back on Christmas Traditions
We look back on a conversation Chuck and Jeremy had last December, delving into the art of creating unique Christmas traditions that beautifully blend with this Christ-centered season, ensuring it remains the focal point for our family celebrations.
Episode 066 - An Adoption Story with James & Jenni Neal (Part 2)
Chuck and Jeremy continue their interview with our education pastor, James Neal, and his wife, Jenni, about their adoption journey. In this episode they share about the process of God bringing their daughter Megan into their family through adoption and also the unexpected addition of Gavin.
Episode 065 - An Adoption Story with James & Jenni Neal (Part 1)
Chuck and Jeremy interview our education pastor, James Neal, and his wife, Jenni about their adoption journey. In this episode, they share the circumstances that led them to choose adoption, their specific agent, and the process of adopting their oldest son, Logan.
Episode 064 - Tips for Talking to Your Kids about Politics
Navigating conversations about politics can feel overwhelming, especially when speaking with your kids. In this episode, Chuck and Jeremy offer practical tips for parents on how to approach politics with grace and truth built on God's Word.
Episode 063 - A Look Back on our Interview with Pastor Tom Wagoner
Chuck and Jeremy interview Tom Wagoner, pastor of CBC for 37 years, about the lessons he has learned from his years of parenting. Pastor Tom shares how his view of Biblical discipline has developed through the years and what it now looks like as the parent of three adults.Here are multiple resources mentioned in this episode:Shepherding a Child's Heart by Tedd Tripp: https://shepherdingtheheart.org/books/shepherding-a-childs-heart/Parenting by Paul David Tripp: https://www.paultripp.com/parentingGospel by JD Greear: https://jdgreear.com/resources/books/
Episode 062 - Worry-Free Parenting with Dolan & Kristen Williams
In this episode, Dolan and Kristen explore insights from Sissy Goff's book The Worry-Free Parent: Living in Confidence So Your Kids Can Too. The conversation helps parents reflect on how anxiety and worry have impacted their own lives, offering practical support for managing stress in the present—body, mind, heart, and in parenting. They also provide hope for the future, particularly for parents dealing with perfectionism.You can purchase the book and find more info here: https://a.co/d/gXM2zVe
Episode 061 - Back to School Public School Edition with Greg & Jennifer Parker
In this episode we interview Greg & Jennifer Parker who have chosen public school education for their children. They discuss how this decision has impacted their kids' faith and given them unique opportunities. Encountering challenges and rewards, the Parkers give spiritual strategies they use to keep their family grounded. Whether you're navigating public school as a Christian parent or considering it, this interview offers valuable insights and encouragement.
Episode 060 - Back to School Christian School Edition with Joe & Catrina Cain
In this episode, we dive into the world of Christian schooling with Joe & Catrina Cain who have chosen this path for their family. Parents of three currently in school, Joe & Catrina share how Christian schools have supported their children's spiritual growth, the rewards and challenges they've encountered, and practical advice for families considering this option.
Episode 059 - Back to School Homeschool Edition with Cheryl Autry
As families prepare for the upcoming school year, Chuck and Jeremy speak with Cheryl Autry, who has homeschooled her and Jeremy's sons for more than 18 years. Cheryl provides encouragement to families who are contemplating or currently engaged in homeschooling, reflecting on how God has guided and equipped her throughout her homeschooling journey.
Episode 058 - A Look Back on "Why Should I Care about My Children's Education?"
As parents prepare for a new school year in the coming weeks we throw back to a conversation Chuck and Jeremy had in Episode 23 about our children's education.Often we separate general education from the spiritual development of our children. But if all truth is God's truth, shouldn't education be connected to our worship of God? In this episode, Chuck and Jeremy discuss the responsibility of parents to educate their children no matter what method of schooling they choose.
Episode 057 - Filtering Family Fun: A Parent's Guide to VidAngel
In this brief episode, Jeremy and Chuck share an excellent resource for families. VidAngel can be connected to popular streaming services empowering parents to control the content displayed on their TVs.Find out more info at: https://www.vidangel.com
Episode 056 - You Can Follow Jesus and Love Your Country with Larry Williams
In this 4th of July episode, Jeremy and Chuck talk about how parents can teach their kids they can follow Jesus as Lord and love America as a gracious gift from God. They interview chief Master Sgt. Larry Williams from a veteran's perspective what it looks like to respect our nation and those who have sacrificed their lives for the freedom we experience daily.
Episode 055 - At the Movies: Inside Out 2 Movie Review
In this episode, Chuck and Jeremy discuss the newly released Disney Pixar film, Inside Out 2. They explore various aspects of the movie, offering insights that can spark meaningful conversations with your kids if you decide to watch it this summer.
Episode 054 - Teaching Holy Sexuality during Pride Month
In this episode, Chuck and Jeremy share a resource for parents to teach their teens a Biblical sexual ethic. Based on his book Holy Sexuality and the Gospel, Dr. Christopher Yuan offers a gospel-centered video study, The Holy Sexuality Project, designed for parents and teens to take a sharp and focused look at what God's Word says about identity, sex, sexuality, and gender.To check out the resource, go to: www.holysexuality.com
Episode 053 - What should I do when my kids aren't interested in church? with Pastor Cameron Cloud
Pastor Cameron Cloud joins Chuck and Jeremy to discuss how parents can inspire their kids to be interested in church. They also encourage parents whose children show no interest in attending church or spiritual things.
Episode 052 - Influencers Shaping our Kids' Spiritual Development
In this episode, Chuck and Jeremy explore the pivotal influencers shaping our children's spiritual growth: peers, adult mentors, and parents. They delve into recognizing negative influences with healthy boundaries and fostering access to positive ones.
Episode 051 - Prayer's Effect on Our Kid's Spiritual Development
In this episode, Chuck and Jeremy discuss the significant contribution prayer makes to children's spiritual development. They also examine the role parents can play in causing their children to pray and how they can help their children understand certain aspects of prayer.
Episode 050 - Preparing our Families for Easter
With Easter right around the corner, Chuck and Jeremy talk about practical ways we can help our kids focus on our Risen Savior this Resurrection Sunday.
Episode 049 - Teaching Our Kids to Serve
Teaching our kids to serve through the local church is essential to their spiritual development. In this episode, Chuck and Jeremy talk about how we can practically give our kids opportunitites to serve and how this sets them up as adults who live sacrificial lives of faith.
Episode 048 - The Impact of Christian Music in Your Home with Darren Hughes
In this episode, Chuck and Jeremy talk with Worship Pastor Darren Hughes about the influence of Christian music on our children and the significance of filling your household with songs that worship our Creator and Savior.
Episode 047 - The Importance of Mission Trips
Research indicates that engaging in mission trips and projects significantly contributes to a child's spiritual development. Chuck and Jeremy, both gearing up for mission trips, talk about the crucial role of discussing missions with your children and providing them the opportunity to participate in one before they graduate.
Episode 046 - Regular Bible Reading
Lifeway Research shows that the most common factor in kids following the Lord into their adult years was regular Bible reading. Jeremy and Chuck discuss how parents can make this a habit in any stage of their children's development.
Episode 045 - What is Successful Parenting?
In their first episode of 2024, Chuck and Jeremy remind what our definition of successful parenting should be as Christ-followers. They dive into a Lifeway research that surveyed parents of adult children about contributing influencers in their kids' spiritual development.Research notes and quotes are mentioned from Nothing Less: Engaging Kids in a Lifetime of Faith by Jana Magruder.
Episode 044 - Christmas Traditions
In the final episode of the year, Chuck and Jeremy delve into the art of creating unique Christmas traditions that beautifully blend with this Christ-centered season, ensuring it remains the focal point for our family celebrations.
Episode 043 - Modeling Thankfulness to our Kids
Jeremy and Chuck explore practical ways Christian parents can model and teach gratitude to their kids especially during this Thanksgiving season. We see from Ephesians 5:18-20 the direct connection between being Spirit-filled and expressing thankfulness.
Episode 042 - Unwrapping Rest: Navigating the Holiday Hustle
In this episode, Chuck and Jeremy delve into the challenges of navigating the holiday season's hustle and bustle. They explore practical strategies for parents to safeguard against an overloaded schedule, emphasizing the importance of setting priorities and carving out time for rest amidst the seasonal chaos.
Episode 041 - A Conversation with Pastor Cameron Cloud on Anxiety and Depression
Many parents are seeing the statistical rise of anxiety and depression among adolescents today. How do we understand and approach this Biblically with our kids? Jeremy and Chuck interview Pastor Cameron Cloud who approaches this sensitive subject with the foundation of God's Word.
Episode 040 - Temporary Seasons in Parenting
In this episode of Beyond Apparent, Chuck and Jeremy delve into the challenges parents face when navigating difficult and temporary seasons in their journey. Parenting can be a rollercoaster ride, and sometimes we find ourselves in the midst of storms, unsure of how to weather them. Our goal in this episode is to offer guidance, empathy, and practical tips for parents who might be feeling overwhelmed, stressed, or uncertain about how to cope with the unique challenges they're currently experiencing.
Episode 039 - Satan's Attack on Your Family
In this eye-opening episode, we delve deep into the two critical dangers parents often overlook when it comes to safeguarding their families against the influence of Satan.
Episode 038 - Navigating Your Child's Faith Deconstruction Part 2
Chuck and Jeremy continue their conversation about helping parents understand and support their children as they navigate the process of disentangling truth from error in their faith.
Episode 037 - Navigating Your Child's Faith Deconstruction Part 1
Chuck and Jeremy discuss practical insights to help parents understand and support their children as they navigate the process of disentangling truth from error in their faith. Whether your child is going through a period of doubt or a complete faith deconstruction, parents can trust the authority of Scripture and the love of God to guide HIs children through these difficult moments.
Episode 036 - What Educators Wish Parents Knew with Betsy Dean
In this installment, Jeremy and Chuck have a conversation with Betsy Dean, a seasoned educator with extensive experience and one of the founders of Brookside Christian Academy. They explore educators' perspectives and closely examine how they can be partners in education.
Episode 035 - An Adoption Story with Darren & Margy Hughes
Darren and Margy Hughes share the highs and lows of their international adoption journeys bringing Sophia and Isaac into their family.Darren, the worship/administrative pastor of Central Baptist Church, wrote and recorded a song with Butler, Hughes, and Hayes a few years ago about Sophia's adoption and the adoption of all believers into God's family. The music video can be found at this link: https://youtu.be/oRKcgsf4mEA?si=r8fcakrGCXyL2W-J
Episode 034 - The Transgender Question
In this episode, Chuck and Jeremy address transgenderism and gender roles. The two main questions are answered: What is God's design for gender? What should our response be to distortions of God's design?