Unschooling Mom2Mom
Sue Patterson
The Unschooling Mom2Mom podcast is a quick conversation with Sue Patterson, coach, author, and mother of 3 grown unschoolers. Sue shares inspiration and tips to help you find the unschooling confidence you're looking for! Even if you’re more of a “homeschooler” than an “unschooler,” these 10 minute(ish) podcasts can help you find more joy in parenting, educating and connecting with your children! All 6 Seasons listed here: https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/podcast
Episodes
Feeling Untethered with Unschooling? | 230
Unschooling can leave you wondering, “Am I doing enough?”—even when you can see your child learning. Why do worksheets, schedules, and grade levels still feel like proof that you’re doing your job?That’s the "untethered" feeling. You’ve stepped away from school’s rules, but when you’re worried, the old ways of measuring a day can still feel reassuring. A hard week, a question about grade levels, or a glimpse of another homeschooling family’s routine can bring them right back.In this episode, I talk about how to tell the difference between a child who needs help and a parent caught in comparison. We’ll look at what you can notice about your child’s learning, and what your role can look like when there’s no checklist to mark off. Whether you’re new to unschooling or have been at it for a while, you may recognize that pull toward the familiar.“Am I doing enough?” is our October theme inside Creating Confidence Daily. You’ll get a short voice note from me each day, and we’ll talk through your questions on an end-of-month group coaching call.Join Creating Confidence Daily: https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/creating-confidence-membership#MembershipOptionsNot sure whether it’s right for you? Book a free ten-minute clarity call with mehttps://suepatterson.as.meLet me know what you think of this!Support the show_____________________________________________________You don't have to do this alone.Creating Confidence Community Support!Whether you prefer daily encouragement or a supportive community with live coaching, you can explore it all and see what fits your family best.Choose the level of support that fits you best—from daily encouragement to live coaching and community.Now 2 Tiers available for community support!Tier 1: Monthly themes, Daily posts/audios from Sue, discussion threads @Circle, 1 monthly group call (month-by-month $39)Tier 2: Full support, 8 group calls per month, extensive library (+Tier 1 benefits)$99 month-by-month or $49 in 6 month pkgs.Creating Confidence OptionsUNSCHOOLING 101 CourseMath WITHOUT Curriculum CourseUnschooling Transcript CourseSeasonal Unschooling Guides Strewing CalendarsPri...
What the Homeschool Socialization Question Misses | 229
Everyone asks, “But what about socialization?”Usually, they mean: Will your child have friends?But sometimes they’re asking something much bigger: Without school, who will teach your child how to fit in?And that raises a question we rarely stop to ask:What kind of socialization are children actually getting at school—and is all of it something we want to recreate?Because spending every day with same-age peers doesn’t teach children only how to make friends. It also teaches them about popularity, conformity, peer pressure, and where they’re expected to fit in.In this episode, Sue untangles socializing, social skills, and socialization—and explains why they’re not interchangeable.You may never answer the socialization question the same way again.Ready to dive deeper: Sue's Creating Confidence Membership has DAILY voice messages from her this month all about socialization! You won't want to miss it. AND the new Tier 1 Membership offers the 1 live monthly group call on the theme of the month!FREE PDF: Social Stuff Nobody Explains READ AT THE BLOG:https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/what-the-homeschool-socialization-question-missesRELATED PODCASTS:#26 What about Socialization? (How will they make friends?)Let me know what you think of this!Support the show_____________________________________________________You don't have to do this alone.Creating Confidence Community Support!Whether you prefer daily encouragement or a supportive community with live coaching, you can explore it all and see what fits your family best.Choose the level of support that fits you best—from daily encouragement to live coaching and community.Now 2 Tiers available for community support!Tier 1: Monthly themes, Daily posts/audios from Sue, discussion threads @Circle, 1 monthly group call (month-by-month $39)Tier 2: Full support, 8 group calls per month, extensive library (+Tier 1 benefits)$99 month-by-month or $49 in 6 month pkgs.Creating Confidence OptionsUNSCHOOLING 101 CourseMath WITHOUT Curriculum CourseUnschooling Transcript CourseSeasonal Unschooling Guides Strewing CalendarsPri...
You Don’t Need Curriculum to Make Learning Happen | 228
Looking for fun homeschooling ideas that don’t require curriculum? Discover how unschooling and strewing help children learn naturally through everyday activities and interests.Your September Calendar is ready for you!In this episode, Sue explores how learning can weave through playful September possibilities—from making Rice Krispie treats to investigating rabbits or noticing the changing daylight around the Autumn Equinox.She explains how strewing introduces interesting ideas without assigning lessons, controlling the outcome, or requiring every activity to become a major project.You’ll also hear how the Strewing Calendar makes this easier with a printable monthly calendar, daily links and ideas, and learning objectives that help parents recognize—or document—the academics already woven through real life.Your children don’t need days packed with educational activities. They need an interesting life with plenty of possibilities.Learn more about the Strewing Calendar: https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/strewing-calendarsExplore Creating Confidence Community Support: https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/creating-confidence-sign-upLet me know what you think of this!Support the show_____________________________________________________You don't have to do this alone.Creating Confidence Community Support!Whether you prefer daily encouragement or a supportive community with live coaching, you can explore it all and see what fits your family best.Choose the level of support that fits you best—from daily encouragement to live coaching and community.Now 2 Tiers available for community support!Tier 1: Monthly themes, Daily posts/audios from Sue, discussion threads @Circle, 1 monthly group call (month-by-month $39)Tier 2: Full support, 8 group calls per month, extensive library (+Tier 1 benefits)$99 month-by-month or $49 in 6 month pkgs.Creating Confidence OptionsUNSCHOOLING 101 CourseMath WITHOUT Curriculum CourseUnschooling Transcript CourseSeasonal Unschooling Guides Strewing CalendarsPri...
How to Stay Confident About Unschooling—Before a Crisis Hits | 227
Looking for unschooling support that will help you stay confident without adding another overwhelming plan or curriculum to your life? In this episode, Sue Patterson explains how a simple daily “unschooling workout” can protect your confidence from the school-centered messages surrounding you.You’ll hear:Why unschooling confidence can disappear even when everything is going wellHow school expectations gradually creep back into our thinkingWhy you shouldn’t wait for a crisis to reconnect with unschoolingHow two or three minutes a day can strengthen your perspectiveWhy connecting with other unschooling parents matters—even if you’re an introvertHow to decide between Creating Confidence Daily and Full Community SupportNow 2 Tiers available for community support! Tier 1: Monthly themes, Daily posts/audios from Sue, discussion threads @Circle, 1 monthly group call (month-by-month $39)Tier 2: Full support, 8 group calls per month, extensive library (+Tier 1 benefits)$99 month-by-month or $49 in 6 month pkgs.Related Podcast:Episode #226 for the story behind Sue’s “little unschooling experiment”—and why new members can benefit from it now.Find both membership options in the link below.https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/creating-confidence-sign-upLet me know what you think of this!Support the show_____________________________________________________You don't have to do this alone.Creating Confidence Community Support!Whether you prefer daily encouragement or a supportive community with live coaching, you can explore it all and see what fits your family best.Choose the level of support that fits you best—from daily encouragement to live coaching and community.Now 2 Tiers available for community support!Tier 1: Monthly themes, Daily posts/audios from Sue, discussion threads @Circle, 1 monthly group call (month-by-month $39)Tier 2: Full support, 8 group calls per month, extensive library (+Tier 1 benefits)$99 month-by-month or $49 in 6 month pkgs.Creating Confidence OptionsUNSCHOOLING 101 CourseMath WITHOUT Curriculum CourseUnschooling Transcript CourseSeasonal Unschooling Guides Strewing CalendarsPri...
Six Months Ago, I Tried An Unschooling Experiment | 226
Daily unschooling support can help homeschooling parents build confidence before doubts, comparisons, and outside pressure take over.Six months ago, I created a small Daily Support app as an experiment. Those one- or two-minute morning voice notes became something much more useful than I expected.In this episode, I’m sharing:Why brief, daily support can have such a powerful impactHow unschooling confidence can quietly erode when life gets busyWhy we shouldn’t wait for a crisis to reconnect with what we believeWhat Daily Support has grown to includeThe new Creating Confidence — Daily and Full Support optionsCreating Confidence pricing changes on Labor Day. Join before then to keep the current monthly rate:Daily Support: $8.99/monthFull Community Support: $49/monthChoose your support: Herehttps://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/creating-confidence-sign-upMaybe tomorrow morning, we’ll have our coffee together. ☕️Read the transcript herehttps://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/daily-unschooling-supportLet me know what you think of this!Support the show_____________________________________________________You don't have to do this alone.Creating Confidence Community Support!Whether you prefer daily encouragement or a supportive community with live coaching, you can explore it all and see what fits your family best.Choose the level of support that fits you best—from daily encouragement to live coaching and community.Now 2 Tiers available for community support!Tier 1: Monthly themes, Daily posts/audios from Sue, discussion threads @Circle, 1 monthly group call (month-by-month $39)Tier 2: Full support, 8 group calls per month, extensive library (+Tier 1 benefits)$99 month-by-month or $49 in 6 month pkgs.Creating Confidence OptionsUNSCHOOLING 101 CourseMath WITHOUT Curriculum CourseUnschooling Transcript CourseSeasonal Unschooling Guides Strewing CalendarsPri...
School Refusal: A Mom-to-Mom Reframe When Your Kid Is Miserable | 225
My Kid Won't Go Back to School — What If We Didn't Make Them?Every school-refusal article this week says the same thing: watch for the warning signs, then find gentler ways to get your kid back in the building. But what if that's not the only option?In this episode, Sue talks — mom to mom — about the real question underneath the panic of school refusal: not "how do I get compliance," but "what if my kid's distress is actually information worth listening to?" Sue shares her own story of never planning to homeschool, why "unschooling" doesn't have to be a scary word or an identity you adopt, and why a plan that wasn't working at school probably won't magically work at your kitchen table either.If you're standing at the edge of a decision you never expected to be making, this episode is for you.Want to talk it through? Book a free call with Sue — no program, no pitch, just mom to mom: Use this link for a 30-minute Quick Call:https://suepatterson.as.me/Quick-30New episodes exploring what comes after this decision — coming soon. Follow the show so you don't miss them.Let me know what you think of this!Support the show_____________________________________________________You don't have to do this alone.Creating Confidence Community Support!Whether you prefer daily encouragement or a supportive community with live coaching, you can explore it all and see what fits your family best.Choose the level of support that fits you best—from daily encouragement to live coaching and community.Now 2 Tiers available for community support!Tier 1: Monthly themes, Daily posts/audios from Sue, discussion threads @Circle, 1 monthly group call (month-by-month $39)Tier 2: Full support, 8 group calls per month, extensive library (+Tier 1 benefits)$99 month-by-month or $49 in 6 month pkgs.Creating Confidence OptionsUNSCHOOLING 101 CourseMath WITHOUT Curriculum CourseUnschooling Transcript CourseSeasonal Unschooling Guides Strewing CalendarsPri...
The School Year Is Starting Without Us—Why Does It Feel So Weird? | 224
The school year is starting, but your child isn’t going back. Even when homeschooling is the right decision, back-to-school season can stir up doubt, mixed feelings, and the urge to suddenly make a bigger plan.In this episode, we talk about why August can feel so strange when your family steps outside the school calendar, why your child may miss parts of school without wanting to return, and how old school expectations can creep into your thinking before you realize it.If you’re new to homeschooling or unschooling and wondering why this transition feels harder than expected, this episode will help you recognize what’s really happening—and why you don’t need to rush to recreate school at home.Not Back to School 7-Day ChallengeIf you’re ready for some help figuring out what comes next, join me for the Not Back to School 7-Day Challenge. We’ll spend a week looking at:how your home and your days can support this new way of livinghow to recognize the learning already happeningwhich school expectations you may still be carrying with youhow to handle outside questions and opinionshow to create a beginning that actually fits your familyJoin the challenge: https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/nbts-challengeLet me know what you think of this!Support the show_____________________________________________________You don't have to do this alone.Creating Confidence Community Support!Whether you prefer daily encouragement or a supportive community with live coaching, you can explore it all and see what fits your family best.Choose the level of support that fits you best—from daily encouragement to live coaching and community.Now 2 Tiers available for community support!Tier 1: Monthly themes, Daily posts/audios from Sue, discussion threads @Circle, 1 monthly group call (month-by-month $39)Tier 2: Full support, 8 group calls per month, extensive library (+Tier 1 benefits)$99 month-by-month or $49 in 6 month pkgs.Creating Confidence OptionsUNSCHOOLING 101 CourseMath WITHOUT Curriculum CourseUnschooling Transcript CourseSeasonal Unschooling Guides Strewing CalendarsPri...
My Child Isn’t Going Back to School—Now What? | 223
Is your child not going back to school? Here’s how to start homeschooling—or explore unschooling—without rushing into curriculum or recreating school at home.Once you’ve made the decision to leave school, a new worry often moves in: What are we supposed to do now?In this episode, Sue Patterson shares five practical ways to begin:Handle your state’s legal requirements without mistaking them for an educational planConsider what your child may need to recover from after leaving schoolAvoid letting fear rush you into curriculum, rigid schedules, and too many commitmentsCollaborate with your child as you figure out what comes nextExpect the doubts that can surface when everyone else goes back to schoolYou don’t need to become a homeschooling expert or understand unschooling perfectly before you begin. You need time to reconnect, observe your child, and create an approach that fits your actual family.Help for ParentsIf your child isn’t going back to school and you’re wondering what happens next, the Not Back to School 7-Day Challenge will help you take those first steps with more clarity and confidence.https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/nbts-challengeGo straight to sign up: https://cc.unschoolingmom2mom.com/checkout/not-back-to-school-challengeFor ongoing coaching, resources, and support from other unschooling parents, explore the Creating Confidence Membership.https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/creating-confidence-sign-upLet me know what you think of this!Support the show_____________________________________________________You don't have to do this alone.Creating Confidence Community Support!Whether you prefer daily encouragement or a supportive community with live coaching, you can explore it all and see what fits your family best.Choose the level of support that fits you best—from daily encouragement to live coaching and community.Now 2 Tiers available for community support!Tier 1: Monthly themes, Daily posts/audios from Sue, discussion threads @Circle, 1 monthly group call (month-by-month $39)Tier 2: Full support, 8 group calls per month, extensive library (+Tier 1 benefits)$99 month-by-month or $49 in 6 month pkgs.Creating Confidence OptionsUNSCHOOLING 101 CourseMath WITHOUT Curriculum CourseUnschooling Transcript CourseSeasonal Unschooling Guides Strewing CalendarsPri...
The Cons of Unschooling: Where Homeschooling Parents Need to Pivot | 222
A recent Parents.com article explaining the pros and cons of unschooling raises an important question: Are these really problems with unschooling—or signs that we’re still defining learning through a school lens?In this episode, Sue Patterson looks at the concerns raised about basic skills, parental involvement, free time, and schedules—and explores where homeschooling parents may need to pivot.Are children really learning only when they’re completing lessons? Does making them study subjects they dislike prepare them for the future? And what might they lose when their curiosity is repeatedly interrupted by an adult’s curriculum checklist?We’ll also explore what involved unschooling parenting actually looks like—and why starting with the learner may make more sense in today’s world than starting with a predetermined body of knowledge.If you’re ready to move away from the school version of learning but aren’t sure what to do next, Unschooling 101 and Learning Math Without Curriculum can help. Both courses are included in the Unschooling Starter Bundle for $99 through July.Find the Unschooling Starter Bundle:https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/product/Unschooling-Starter-BundleMore about the July Special:https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/build-your-unschooling-confidence Let me know what you think of this!Support the show_____________________________________________________You don't have to do this alone.Creating Confidence Community Support!Whether you prefer daily encouragement or a supportive community with live coaching, you can explore it all and see what fits your family best.Choose the level of support that fits you best—from daily encouragement to live coaching and community.Now 2 Tiers available for community support!Tier 1: Monthly themes, Daily posts/audios from Sue, discussion threads @Circle, 1 monthly group call (month-by-month $39)Tier 2: Full support, 8 group calls per month, extensive library (+Tier 1 benefits)$99 month-by-month or $49 in 6 month pkgs.Creating Confidence OptionsUNSCHOOLING 101 CourseMath WITHOUT Curriculum CourseUnschooling Transcript CourseSeasonal Unschooling Guides Strewing CalendarsPri...
Unschooling Course or Resource Library: Which One Fits You? #221
Would an unschooling course you can work through step by step—or a library of resources you can pull from when you need them—fit you better?Some unschooling parents want a clear path they can follow from beginning to end. Others want trusted help waiting for them when questions about deschooling, technology, math, or doing enough appear.In this short episode, Sue explains the difference between two kinds of self-paced unschooling support:• The Unschooling Starter Bundle—with Unschooling 101 and Learning Math Without Curriculum• The Unschooling Parent Toolkit—with all 25 unschooling guidesBoth options are $99 through July 31.See both options and choose the one that fits you:https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/build-your-unschooling-confidenceLet me know what you think of this!Support the show_____________________________________________________You don't have to do this alone.Creating Confidence Community Support!Whether you prefer daily encouragement or a supportive community with live coaching, you can explore it all and see what fits your family best.Choose the level of support that fits you best—from daily encouragement to live coaching and community.Now 2 Tiers available for community support!Tier 1: Monthly themes, Daily posts/audios from Sue, discussion threads @Circle, 1 monthly group call (month-by-month $39)Tier 2: Full support, 8 group calls per month, extensive library (+Tier 1 benefits)$99 month-by-month or $49 in 6 month pkgs.Creating Confidence OptionsUNSCHOOLING 101 CourseMath WITHOUT Curriculum CourseUnschooling Transcript CourseSeasonal Unschooling Guides Strewing CalendarsPri...
Maybe Timelines Are Why Unschooling Feels So Hard | 220
Why does it feel like unschooling isn’t working—even when you can see learning happening? The problem may be the school timelines you’re still using to measure your child.Many homeschooling and unschooling parents worry that their children aren’t reading, doing math, becoming independent, or preparing for the future soon enough. We may have left school behind, but its milestones can still shape how we define progress—and turn ordinary uncertainty into fear.In this episode, Sue looks at why timelines make unschooling so difficult to trust, how today’s concern can become a frightening story about the future, and what parents can use instead of grade levels and curriculum benchmarks.Through July: Get Unschooling 101 and Learning Math Without Curriculum together for $99. Learn how to reframe education and put learning without curriculum into practice. https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/product/Unschooling-Starter-BundleLet me know what you think of this!Support the show_____________________________________________________You don't have to do this alone.Creating Confidence Community Support!Whether you prefer daily encouragement or a supportive community with live coaching, you can explore it all and see what fits your family best.Choose the level of support that fits you best—from daily encouragement to live coaching and community.Now 2 Tiers available for community support!Tier 1: Monthly themes, Daily posts/audios from Sue, discussion threads @Circle, 1 monthly group call (month-by-month $39)Tier 2: Full support, 8 group calls per month, extensive library (+Tier 1 benefits)$99 month-by-month or $49 in 6 month pkgs.Creating Confidence OptionsUNSCHOOLING 101 CourseMath WITHOUT Curriculum CourseUnschooling Transcript CourseSeasonal Unschooling Guides Strewing CalendarsPri...
Is My Child Behind? Or Am I Using the Wrong Timeline? | 219
Is your child really behind... or are you comparing them to the wrong timeline?When we leave school, do we have to carry the school's timeline with us?Doesn't the freedom to learn outside a classroom give us a different way to measure growth?In this episode, we're exploring one of the most common fears homeschooling and unschooling parents face: the worry that their child is falling behind. But before we answer that question, I want to challenge the assumptions behind it.If you've ever found yourself wondering whether your child is learning enough, reading soon enough, or keeping pace with everyone else, this conversation will help you see learning—and your child—through a different lens.If this episode has you looking at your own child a little differently, you may have questions that are unique to your family.That's exactly what we talk through inside my Creating Confidence Community.https://cc.unschoolingmom2mom.com/checkout/creating-confidence-membershipEvery week, parents bring questions about reading, math, teenagers, motivation, transcripts, screens... and yes, those worries about whether their child is "behind."If you'd like to experience those conversations for yourself, I'd love to invite you to come spend a week with us.You can join a coaching call, meet other unschooling parents, browse the resource library, or simply listen in.Your first week is free, so you'll have plenty of time to see whether it's the kind of support you've been looking for.I hope to see you there.Let me know what you think of this!Support the show_____________________________________________________You don't have to do this alone.Creating Confidence Community Support!Whether you prefer daily encouragement or a supportive community with live coaching, you can explore it all and see what fits your family best.Choose the level of support that fits you best—from daily encouragement to live coaching and community.Now 2 Tiers available for community support!Tier 1: Monthly themes, Daily posts/audios from Sue, discussion threads @Circle, 1 monthly group call (month-by-month $39)Tier 2: Full support, 8 group calls per month, extensive library (+Tier 1 benefits)$99 month-by-month or $49 in 6 month pkgs.Creating Confidence OptionsUNSCHOOLING 101 CourseMath WITHOUT Curriculum CourseUnschooling Transcript CourseSeasonal Unschooling Guides Strewing CalendarsPri...
Why Summer Makes Homeschooling Parents Rush to Plan | 218
Summer has a funny way of making homeschooling parents feel like they should have a plan. Even unschooling parents can start worrying about filling the time, finding a routine, or doing... more.Being between one school year and the next can feel surprisingly uncomfortable. Maybe it's the extra space.In this episode, we're exploring why those in-between seasons make us want to rush into decisions—to buy something, fix something, or make a plan—and why slowing down to observe your child may bring more clarity than planning ever could.It's almost as if creating a plan will fill the space and stop the worrying.Read at the Blog:https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/summer-the-in-between-seasonNEW! Try Sue's Creating Confidence Community for a week - for Free!https://cc.unschoolingmom2mom.com/checkout/creating-confidence-membershipLet me know what you think of this!Support the show_____________________________________________________You don't have to do this alone.Creating Confidence Community Support!Whether you prefer daily encouragement or a supportive community with live coaching, you can explore it all and see what fits your family best.Choose the level of support that fits you best—from daily encouragement to live coaching and community.Now 2 Tiers available for community support!Tier 1: Monthly themes, Daily posts/audios from Sue, discussion threads @Circle, 1 monthly group call (month-by-month $39)Tier 2: Full support, 8 group calls per month, extensive library (+Tier 1 benefits)$99 month-by-month or $49 in 6 month pkgs.Creating Confidence OptionsUNSCHOOLING 101 CourseMath WITHOUT Curriculum CourseUnschooling Transcript CourseSeasonal Unschooling Guides Strewing CalendarsPri...
When Your Kid Won't Get Off Screens: Why It Turns Into a Battle | 217
When your kid won't get off screens, even a simple request can quickly turn into a battle. Many homeschooling and unschooling parents find themselves caught in this frustrating pattern. What starts as "time for dinner" or "we need to leave" suddenly becomes an argument, leaving everyone wondering why it escalated so quickly.In this episode, Sue Patterson explores why screen time battles happen, what children experience when they're deeply engaged in gaming, and how understanding those transitions can help reduce conflict without relying on more rules or consequences.In this episode you'll learn:Why screen time battles escalate so quicklyWhat children experience when they're deeply engaged in video games and gamingWhy transitions away from screens can feel so difficultHow repeated conflicts create predictable family patternsPractical ways to reduce power struggles around screen timeWhy understanding your child's perspective often changes everythingWhether you're homeschooling, unschooling, or simply trying to create a healthier relationship with screens, this episode will help you understand why these moments happen—and how to make them feel less like a battle.Read transcript at the blog:https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/when-your-kid-wont-get-off-screens-why-it-turns-into-a-battleLet me know what you think of this!Support the show_____________________________________________________You don't have to do this alone.Creating Confidence Community Support!Whether you prefer daily encouragement or a supportive community with live coaching, you can explore it all and see what fits your family best.Choose the level of support that fits you best—from daily encouragement to live coaching and community.Now 2 Tiers available for community support!Tier 1: Monthly themes, Daily posts/audios from Sue, discussion threads @Circle, 1 monthly group call (month-by-month $39)Tier 2: Full support, 8 group calls per month, extensive library (+Tier 1 benefits)$99 month-by-month or $49 in 6 month pkgs.Creating Confidence OptionsUNSCHOOLING 101 CourseMath WITHOUT Curriculum CourseUnschooling Transcript CourseSeasonal Unschooling Guides Strewing CalendarsPri...
Making Homeschooling Decisions Out of Fear | 216
What if fear is influencing more of your homeschooling decisions than you realize?When we're anxious about our children's future, it's easy to mistake fear for wisdom and urgency for insight.In this episode, Sue Patterson explores how fear can cloud our judgment, shape our homeschooling decisions, and make it difficult to separate what we're actually observing from what we're afraid might happen.If you've ever wondered whether you're responding to your child—or to your fear—this episode is for you.Need help sorting through your specific situation? Throughout June, Sue's 30-minute coaching calls are half price. Sometimes a conversation can help you separate what's actually happening from what fear is telling you might happen.http://www.suepatterson.as.me/june-special________________________________Read the transcript here:https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/making-homeschooling-decisions-out-of-fearLet me know what you think of this!Support the show_____________________________________________________You don't have to do this alone.Creating Confidence Community Support!Whether you prefer daily encouragement or a supportive community with live coaching, you can explore it all and see what fits your family best.Choose the level of support that fits you best—from daily encouragement to live coaching and community.Now 2 Tiers available for community support!Tier 1: Monthly themes, Daily posts/audios from Sue, discussion threads @Circle, 1 monthly group call (month-by-month $39)Tier 2: Full support, 8 group calls per month, extensive library (+Tier 1 benefits)$99 month-by-month or $49 in 6 month pkgs.Creating Confidence OptionsUNSCHOOLING 101 CourseMath WITHOUT Curriculum CourseUnschooling Transcript CourseSeasonal Unschooling Guides Strewing CalendarsPri...
Can Video Games Count as High School Credit? | 215
They're playing all the time - is there anything worthwhile that we can count for homeschooling transcript? The answer may surprise you. In this episode, Sue Patterson explores how gaming can support learning in subjects like history, science, math, philosophy, leadership, and communication—and shares real examples of how those experiences can be documented on a transcript.Many parents worry that gaming is "just entertainment," especially when their teen spends hours immersed in Minecraft, Civilization, Kerbal Space Program, Factorio, Discord communities, or competitive gaming. But when you look beyond the label and focus on what a student is actually learning, a very different picture begins to emerge.In this episode, you'll discover:• How to identify academic learning hidden inside gaming interests• Real examples of transcript-worthy subjects connected to video games• Why philosophy, ethics, history, science, and math often show up through gaming• How leadership and communication skills develop in online communities• Why "video games" isn't a course title—but can lead to many legitimate high school credits• Tips for translating interest-led learning into transcript languageWhether you're homeschooling, unschooling, or creating a non-traditional high school transcript, this episode will help you recognize learning that may already be happening right in front of you.UNSCHOOLING RESOURCES MENTIONED:Unschooling Transcript Coursehttps://suepatterson-unschooling.thinkific.com/courses/unschooling-transcriptsCreating Confidence Daily APP - Talking about Technology this month!https://cc.unschoolingmom2mom.com/checkout/creating-confidence-dailyCreating Confidence COMMUNITY - Full Support for the journey!https://cc.unschoolingmom2mom.com/checkout/creating-confidence-membership-2If you've ever wondered how to document gaming, screen time, or interest-led learning on a high school transcript, this episode is for you.Let me know what you think of this!Support the show_____________________________________________________You don't have to do this alone.Creating Confidence Community Support!Whether you prefer daily encouragement or a supportive community with live coaching, you can explore it all and see what fits your family best.Choose the level of support that fits you best—from daily encouragement to live coaching and community.Now 2 Tiers available for community support!Tier 1: Monthly themes, Daily posts/audios from Sue, discussion threads @Circle, 1 monthly group call (month-by-month $39)Tier 2: Full support, 8 group calls per month, extensive library (+Tier 1 benefits)$99 month-by-month or $49 in 6 month pkgs.Creating Confidence OptionsUNSCHOOLING 101 CourseMath WITHOUT Curriculum CourseUnschooling Transcript CourseSeasonal Unschooling Guides Strewing CalendarsPri...
Are Homeschooling Questions Stealing Your Summer? | 214
Are you wondering whether it's time to make a change in your child's education?Many parents spend the whole summer questioning what's working, what's not, and whether a different approach to learning might be a better fit for their family. Some are considering leaving the school system. Others are rethinking traditional homeschooling. Still others are exploring unschooling for the first time.They aren't just looking for answers about academics, motivation, socialization, or learning gaps. They're trying to decide what comes next—and what they need to know before making a change.In this episode of Unschooling Mom2Mom, Sue Patterson explores the questions parents often ask when considering homeschooling, unschooling, or a more individualized approach to learning, and shares how coaching can help families move forward with greater clarity and confidence.You'll hear stories from parents who:• Had a teen who seemed interested only in gaming• Felt like their child didn't fit the traditional homeschooling mold• Were curious about unschooling but afraid to make the leap• Needed reassurance that they weren't ruining their children• Wanted a clearer path forward before the new school year beganWhether you're new to homeschooling, curious about unschooling, transitioning away from curriculum, or simply looking for reassurance, this episode will help you approach the new school year with more confidence and less stress.Special Resource mentioned:• 1:1 Coaching Calls (50% off during June)Let me know what you think of this!Support the show_____________________________________________________You don't have to do this alone.Creating Confidence Community Support!Whether you prefer daily encouragement or a supportive community with live coaching, you can explore it all and see what fits your family best.Choose the level of support that fits you best—from daily encouragement to live coaching and community.Now 2 Tiers available for community support!Tier 1: Monthly themes, Daily posts/audios from Sue, discussion threads @Circle, 1 monthly group call (month-by-month $39)Tier 2: Full support, 8 group calls per month, extensive library (+Tier 1 benefits)$99 month-by-month or $49 in 6 month pkgs.Creating Confidence OptionsUNSCHOOLING 101 CourseMath WITHOUT Curriculum CourseUnschooling Transcript CourseSeasonal Unschooling Guides Strewing CalendarsPri...
What Really Prepares Kids for Adulthood? | 213
Are we preparing kids for adulthood… or preparing them for school expectations?Parents worry about grades, gaps, transcripts, screen time, and whether their kids will be successful adults. But real adult life often depends on something else entirely: adaptability, communication, confidence, initiative, emotional regulation, and problem solving.In this episode, Sue Patterson explores how real-life experiences, play, curiosity, gaming, technology, and pursuing interests can help kids develop the skills they actually need for adulthood.Also: why school expectations still shape our fears how unschooling builds real-world problem-solving skills the difference between memorizing information and learning how to navigate life reducing power struggles around technology helping parents feel more confident taking an unconventional path If you’ve ever wondered whether unschooling truly prepares kids for adult life, this episode will help you rethink what “life prep” really means. → Creating Confidence Community and Daily Confidence App: https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/creating-confidence-sign-up → Read transcript at the bloghttps://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/the-life-prep-unschooling-homeschooling-kids-really-need Let me know what you think of this!Support the show_____________________________________________________You don't have to do this alone.Creating Confidence Community Support!Whether you prefer daily encouragement or a supportive community with live coaching, you can explore it all and see what fits your family best.Choose the level of support that fits you best—from daily encouragement to live coaching and community.Now 2 Tiers available for community support!Tier 1: Monthly themes, Daily posts/audios from Sue, discussion threads @Circle, 1 monthly group call (month-by-month $39)Tier 2: Full support, 8 group calls per month, extensive library (+Tier 1 benefits)$99 month-by-month or $49 in 6 month pkgs.Creating Confidence OptionsUNSCHOOLING 101 CourseMath WITHOUT Curriculum CourseUnschooling Transcript CourseSeasonal Unschooling Guides Strewing CalendarsPri...
The Mother's Day Fairy - For Unschooling Moms! | 212
Mother's Day can be a lot of things — wonderful, disappointing, emotional, or somewhere in between. For unschooling and homeschooling moms, there's an added twist: your kids aren't sitting in a classroom getting reminded to make something for you. No teacher. No craft. No school newsletter nudging dad to pick up flowers.So this year? You become the Mother's Day Fairy. 🧚♀️In this episode, Sue Patterson — mom to three now-grown unschooled kids and founder of Unschooling Mom2Mom — shares why unschooling really is a Mother's Movement, and how you can reclaim Mother's Day so it actually fits YOU and your family.You'll hear:Why waiting and seeing is a recipe for disappointmentThe Mother's Day Fairy concept and how to make it a family traditionA practical night-before checklist so the day doesn't just arrive like a regular SundayWhy appreciation is an inside job — and what to do about itHow to set your kids up for success without doing it all for themWhether your Mother's Day has been wonderful, meh, or a total flop in the past — this episode will help you create something that actually feels good. No comparisons. No "what will people think." Just a day that fits the actual humans in your family.Because that's what unschoolers do.🌸 Resources mentioned in this episode:The Mother's Day Collection Page — bookmarkable, comes back every year: UnschoolingMom2Mom.com/mothersdayMother's Day Fairy Checklist @blog: LinkMother's Day Songs Playlist on YouTube: LinkMother's Day Playlist on Spotify: LinkPrintables for Kids or Moms: LinksBazillion Memes to share with other moms: LinkJoin the Unschooling Mom2Mom App CommunityTry it for FREE for 7 daysLet me know what you think of this!Support the show_____________________________________________________You don't have to do this alone.Creating Confidence Community Support!Whether you prefer daily encouragement or a supportive community with live coaching, you can explore it all and see what fits your family best.Choose the level of support that fits you best—from daily encouragement to live coaching and community.Now 2 Tiers available for community support!Tier 1: Monthly themes, Daily posts/audios from Sue, discussion threads @Circle, 1 monthly group call (month-by-month $39)Tier 2: Full support, 8 group calls per month, extensive library (+Tier 1 benefits)$99 month-by-month or $49 in 6 month pkgs.Creating Confidence OptionsUNSCHOOLING 101 CourseMath WITHOUT Curriculum CourseUnschooling Transcript CourseSeasonal Unschooling Guides Strewing CalendarsPri...
What Does an Unschooling Day Look Like? Real-Life Examples by Age | 211
What does an unschooling day actually look like?If you’ve been searching for a routine, a schedule, or some kind of structure you can follow… and keep coming up empty, this episode will give you something more useful.Instead of a rigid plan, we’re walking through real-life examples of unschooling days—what it looks like for younger kids, older kids, and teens—and why it can feel so unstructured (even when learning is happening all day long).Inside this episode:What unschooling looks like in real life (by age)Why “structure” feels missing at firstHow learning shows up without curriculumWhat’s actually happening during gaming, YouTube, and downtimeHow to recognize patterns, rhythms, and progressThis is the shift most parents need: From trying to create structure… to learning how to see it.If your days feel open-ended, uncertain, or like you’re “not doing enough,” this will help you reframe what’s really going on.🎧 Want daily support like this? The Creating Confidence Daily app gives you short, practical voice notes each day to help you stop second-guessing and feel more grounded in your unschooling. Try it free for 7 days.📝 Prefer to read or revisit this later? You can find the full transcript on the blog.Looking for those Seasonal Unschooling Guides Sue mentioned?See all 4 Guides here.Let me know what you think of this!Support the show_____________________________________________________You don't have to do this alone.Creating Confidence Community Support!Whether you prefer daily encouragement or a supportive community with live coaching, you can explore it all and see what fits your family best.Choose the level of support that fits you best—from daily encouragement to live coaching and community.Now 2 Tiers available for community support!Tier 1: Monthly themes, Daily posts/audios from Sue, discussion threads @Circle, 1 monthly group call (month-by-month $39)Tier 2: Full support, 8 group calls per month, extensive library (+Tier 1 benefits)$99 month-by-month or $49 in 6 month pkgs.Creating Confidence OptionsUNSCHOOLING 101 CourseMath WITHOUT Curriculum CourseUnschooling Transcript CourseSeasonal Unschooling Guides Strewing CalendarsPri...
Is Unschooling Enough? What it looks like day to day | 210
What does unschooling look like day to day—and how do you know it’s enough?This is where most parents start to second-guess everything.If you’ve ever lwondered, “Is this enough?”—you’re not alone.We’re unpacking one of the most common fears in unschooling:What learning actually looks like when it doesn’t look like school.With no worksheets, no visible lessons, and no clear benchmarks… it can feel like nothing is happening. But that’s not what’s going on.We’ll talk about: Why unschooling feels “too unstructured” Where that pressure to do more comes from What learning actually looks like in everyday real life Why confidence comes and goes—and how to handle that If you’ve been second-guessing your choices or worried your child is falling behind, let's reframe what you’re seeing—and what really counts.🎧 Listen in, then take a closer look:Full transcript and resourceshttps://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/is-unschooling-enough-what-it-really-looks-like-day-to-dayWant daily support instead of figuring this out on your own? Inside the Creating Confidence Daily app, I walk alongside you for a couple minutes each morning—helping you reset your thinking and build real confidence over time. Try it free for 7 days.https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/creating-confidence-dailyPodcasts Mentioned: Unschooling Doubts: Why Unschooling Parents Feel They Aren't Doing EnoughThe Real Reason Unschooling Confidence Disappears "I Want to Do More to Teach”Let me know what you think of this!Support the show_____________________________________________________You don't have to do this alone.Creating Confidence Community Support!Whether you prefer daily encouragement or a supportive community with live coaching, you can explore it all and see what fits your family best.Choose the level of support that fits you best—from daily encouragement to live coaching and community.Now 2 Tiers available for community support!Tier 1: Monthly themes, Daily posts/audios from Sue, discussion threads @Circle, 1 monthly group call (month-by-month $39)Tier 2: Full support, 8 group calls per month, extensive library (+Tier 1 benefits)$99 month-by-month or $49 in 6 month pkgs.Creating Confidence OptionsUNSCHOOLING 101 CourseMath WITHOUT Curriculum CourseUnschooling Transcript CourseSeasonal Unschooling Guides Strewing CalendarsPri...
How Unschooling Kids Learn Math Without Curriculum (A Real Day, Hour by Hour) | 209
How do unschoolers learn math without a curriculum?Can kids really learn math without school—and how do you know it’s enough?Here's a real “day in the life” of an unschooling teen. See exactly where math shows up—hour by hour—without worksheets, textbooks, or formal lessons.If you’ve been wondering: how do kids learn math without curriculum is real life math enough am I doing enough math in our homeschool what about unschooling math gaps …you'll get a clear, practical look at how math naturally develops through everyday life.Real life Math examples like:Mental math, estimation, math in daily routines Math in video games Cooking, shopping, and budgeting Sports, timing, decision-making Problem-solving, estimation But here’s the struggle you'll recognize—Noticing is Step 1 - Seeing it in YOUR kids's lives is the Next Level.We talk about why so many parents feel confident after seeing examples like this… and then fall back into doubt—and what actually helps build long-term confidence with unschooling math.If you’re transitioning from homeschool curriculum, questioning traditional math approaches, or trying to trust unschooling, this episode will help you start recognizing what’s already happening—and understand what comes next.🎯 Want help seeing and trusting real-life math in your home?UNSCHOOLING RESOURCES for Episode 209Learning Math WITHOUT Curriculum - Let's conquer your math concerns and talk about what real math adults are using daily. Day-In-The-Life - How Unschoolers Learn Math (blogpost) See the Hour-by-Hour Math in this unschooled teen's lifeCreating Confidence Membership Group - Ready to level up and figure this out with other unschoolers? This is for you!Creating Confidence Daily - Voicenotes and inspirating messages every day. This daily habit really will grow your confidence! (7-day Free trial!)Let me know what you think of this!Support the show_____________________________________________________You don't have to do this alone.Creating Confidence Community Support!Whether you prefer daily encouragement or a supportive community with live coaching, you can explore it all and see what fits your family best.Choose the level of support that fits you best—from daily encouragement to live coaching and community.Now 2 Tiers available for community support!Tier 1: Monthly themes, Daily posts/audios from Sue, discussion threads @Circle, 1 monthly group call (month-by-month $39)Tier 2: Full support, 8 group calls per month, extensive library (+Tier 1 benefits)$99 month-by-month or $49 in 6 month pkgs.Creating Confidence OptionsUNSCHOOLING 101 CourseMath WITHOUT Curriculum CourseUnschooling Transcript CourseSeasonal Unschooling Guides Strewing CalendarsPri...
The Truth about Unschooling "Schedules" | 208
“If we don’t use a curriculum... how do we plan anything?”It’s the number one question new unschoolers ask. If stepping away from traditional lesson plans makes you feel like you’ve lost your roadmap, this episode is for you! Welcome to Season 6 of the Unschooling Mom2Mom podcast! This week, host Sue Patterson explains why planning as an unschooling parent isn’t about deciding what your child must learn next. It’s about shaping an environment where curiosity has room to grow. When you let go of the need to control the learning, you remove the friction in your home. We're shifting the focus from "planning school" to "planning for connection." In this episode, you’ll learn 3 simple planning tools unschooling parents use:The "Look at the Week" Conversation: How to build a natural family rhythm based on real life, not an imaginary school schedule.The "Idea Parking Lot": A stress-free way to offer invitations to learn (strewing) without assigning tasks.The "Just Data" Review: A simple weekly habit to help you step back, notice the learning that is already happening, and stop the "Are we doing enough?" panic spiral.Learning doesn’t need nearly as much management as we were taught. Tune in for your 10-minute pep talk to help you build a life where learning naturally fits!Resources Mentioned in this Episode: Need more daily support or a community of like-minded parents to help you brainstorm? You don't have to do this alone!Join the Creating Confidence Membership: https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/creating-confidence-membershipGet Daily Reassurance with the Creating Confidence App: https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/creating-confidence-dailyStrewing Calendar Ideas DAILY! https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/strewing-calendarsLet me know what you think of this!Support the show_____________________________________________________You don't have to do this alone.Creating Confidence Community Support!Whether you prefer daily encouragement or a supportive community with live coaching, you can explore it all and see what fits your family best.Choose the level of support that fits you best—from daily encouragement to live coaching and community.Now 2 Tiers available for community support!Tier 1: Monthly themes, Daily posts/audios from Sue, discussion threads @Circle, 1 monthly group call (month-by-month $39)Tier 2: Full support, 8 group calls per month, extensive library (+Tier 1 benefits)$99 month-by-month or $49 in 6 month pkgs.Creating Confidence OptionsUNSCHOOLING 101 CourseMath WITHOUT Curriculum CourseUnschooling Transcript CourseSeasonal Unschooling Guides Strewing CalendarsPri...
BONUS: Pi Day Without the Hype — When “Fun Learning” Falls Flat
Pi Day is one of those holidays parents often try to make “fun.” But sometimes the issue isn’t the activity — it’s the hype.Here's a quick unschooling perspective on Pi Day and why kids often respond better to curiosity than to pressure.Instead of trying to convince kids something is fun, unschooling families often offer ideas lightly — letting interest show up naturally.Sometimes kids lean in.Sometimes they don’t.And both are completely normal.Sue Patterson also shares a simple way to introduce Pi Day at home without turning it into a big event. Just remember, real learning doesn’t need a sales pitch.Huge collection of Pi Day ideas here:https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/pi-dayBlogpost: The Reality of Pi Day for Unschooling Families🎧 Unschooling Mom2Mom Helping parents build confidence in unschooling and learning outside traditional school.Let me know what you think of this!Support the show_____________________________________________________You don't have to do this alone.Creating Confidence Community Support!Whether you prefer daily encouragement or a supportive community with live coaching, you can explore it all and see what fits your family best.Choose the level of support that fits you best—from daily encouragement to live coaching and community.Now 2 Tiers available for community support!Tier 1: Monthly themes, Daily posts/audios from Sue, discussion threads @Circle, 1 monthly group call (month-by-month $39)Tier 2: Full support, 8 group calls per month, extensive library (+Tier 1 benefits)$99 month-by-month or $49 in 6 month pkgs.Creating Confidence OptionsUNSCHOOLING 101 CourseMath WITHOUT Curriculum CourseUnschooling Transcript CourseSeasonal Unschooling Guides Strewing CalendarsPri...
Quirky Kids: Unschooling and Neurodivergence | 206
What can unschooling families learn from the neurodivergent community?In this episode, Sue Patterson looks at how our understanding of “quirky” kids has changed over the years—and why many unschooling parents are learning from approaches developed within the neurodivergent community.Even families without a diagnosis can benefit from these ideas when kids struggle with expectations, pressure, or social dynamics.In this episode:Reassurance for parents of neurodivergent childrenHow the conversation around neurodivergence has evolvedWhy many families turn to unschooling when school isn’t working What parents can learn from neurodivergent-informed parenting approachesResources for neurodivergent familiesSue also shares details about the Unschooling Summit, where many speakers will be discussing neurodivergence in unschooling families.🎟 Free tickets to the Unschooling Summit: https://www.theunschoolingsummit.org/a/2148243842/xzoAT2Ao📱 Try the Creating Confidence Daily app (7-day free trial): https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/creating-confidence-dailyRead the Transcript: Quirky Kids? Unschooling and Neurodivergence https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/quirky-kids-unschooling-neurodivergenceLet me know what you think of this!Support the show_____________________________________________________You don't have to do this alone.Creating Confidence Community Support!Whether you prefer daily encouragement or a supportive community with live coaching, you can explore it all and see what fits your family best.Choose the level of support that fits you best—from daily encouragement to live coaching and community.Now 2 Tiers available for community support!Tier 1: Monthly themes, Daily posts/audios from Sue, discussion threads @Circle, 1 monthly group call (month-by-month $39)Tier 2: Full support, 8 group calls per month, extensive library (+Tier 1 benefits)$99 month-by-month or $49 in 6 month pkgs.Creating Confidence OptionsUNSCHOOLING 101 CourseMath WITHOUT Curriculum CourseUnschooling Transcript CourseSeasonal Unschooling Guides Strewing CalendarsPri...
Do You Need to Revisit Deschooling? When Unschooling Doubts Show Up | 205
Do you need to revisit deschooling as your child gets older? Many unschooling and homeschooling parents start worrying about learning gaps, grade levels, falling behind, and whether unschooling is “working.”Deschooling is often treated as a beginning phase of homeschooling. But school conditioning doesn’t disappear once. It resurfaces in layers.In this episode, we talk about:• Why deschooling isn’t one-and-done • How grade-level thinking creeps back in • Why independence can trigger anxiety • Common fears about gaps and timelines • How to recalibrate without returning to school-at-home structureIf you’re homeschooling without curriculum, exploring unschooling, or noticing old school-based fears resurfacing, this episode will help you pause, recognize the pattern, and revisit deschooling with steadiness instead of urgency.Deschooling isn’t finished. It evolves as your child grows.____________________________RESOURCES: Creating Confidence (private community or daily app) https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/creating-confidence-dailyDeschooling Toolkit https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/product/Deschooling-ToolkitRead Transcript at the Blog https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/deschooling-isnt-something-you-finishLet me know what you think of this!Support the show_____________________________________________________You don't have to do this alone.Creating Confidence Community Support!Whether you prefer daily encouragement or a supportive community with live coaching, you can explore it all and see what fits your family best.Choose the level of support that fits you best—from daily encouragement to live coaching and community.Now 2 Tiers available for community support!Tier 1: Monthly themes, Daily posts/audios from Sue, discussion threads @Circle, 1 monthly group call (month-by-month $39)Tier 2: Full support, 8 group calls per month, extensive library (+Tier 1 benefits)$99 month-by-month or $49 in 6 month pkgs.Creating Confidence OptionsUNSCHOOLING 101 CourseMath WITHOUT Curriculum CourseUnschooling Transcript CourseSeasonal Unschooling Guides Strewing CalendarsPri...
Those Voices in Your Head? Let Me Elbow In | 204
If you’re an unschooling or homeschooling parent struggling with doubt, internal criticism, or wondering if you’re doing enough, this episode is for you. We talk about how unschooling confidence is built through daily reinforcement — not one-time inspiration.Start your free week of Creating Confidence Daily here:https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/creating-confidence-dailyUnschooling doubt doesn’t disappear just because you left school.Old scripts — about productivity, laziness, timelines, and “doing enough” — are still there criticizing you.And when real life gets loud, those voices get louder.In this episode, we talk about:How to grow your confidenceHow old school-conditioned thinking resurfaces under stressWhy reinforcement matters more than motivationWhat it looks like to “practice perspective”And why adding a steady voice into the mix can change everythingYou don’t have to silence the critical voices completely.But you don’t have to let them be the only ones speaking. I want to be in there too —elbowing them out of the way.If daily reinforcement would help you stay grounded in your unschooling values, Creating Confidence Daily was built for exactly that — short, steady reminders that fit into real life.Try it free for a week here:https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/creating-confidence-dailyI’ll see you there — and I’ll be back here next week.Let me know what you think of this!Support the show_____________________________________________________You don't have to do this alone.Creating Confidence Community Support!Whether you prefer daily encouragement or a supportive community with live coaching, you can explore it all and see what fits your family best.Choose the level of support that fits you best—from daily encouragement to live coaching and community.Now 2 Tiers available for community support!Tier 1: Monthly themes, Daily posts/audios from Sue, discussion threads @Circle, 1 monthly group call (month-by-month $39)Tier 2: Full support, 8 group calls per month, extensive library (+Tier 1 benefits)$99 month-by-month or $49 in 6 month pkgs.Creating Confidence OptionsUNSCHOOLING 101 CourseMath WITHOUT Curriculum CourseUnschooling Transcript CourseSeasonal Unschooling Guides Strewing CalendarsPri...
The Real Reason Your Unschooling Confidence Disappears (And How to Strengthen It) | 203
You feel steady about unschooling… and then one comment, one comparison, one tired day — and you spiral.Why does confidence disappear so fast?Let's unpack why unschooling confidence doesn’t “stick” — even when you understand the philosophy.Confidence doesn’t grow on autopilot. It comes from intentionally brining it back to the front of our minds. Rhythm and repetition. Today, we'll talk about: • Why doubt resurfaces in cycles • The difference between insight and daily reinforcement • Why bingeing encouragement doesn’t work • How 10–15 intentional minutes can steady your thinkingIf you’ve ever thought, “I know this… so why am I still worried?” — this one’s for you.NEW UNSCHOOLING RESOURCE:Creating Confidence Daily opens February 22. A simple daily reset to help you stay steady instead of riding the emotional rollercoaster.Learn more: https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/creating-confidence-dailyRead the transcript: https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/the-real-reason-your-unschooling-confidence-disappears-and-how-to-strengthen-itHappy unschooling.Let me know what you think of this!Support the show_____________________________________________________You don't have to do this alone.Creating Confidence Community Support!Whether you prefer daily encouragement or a supportive community with live coaching, you can explore it all and see what fits your family best.Choose the level of support that fits you best—from daily encouragement to live coaching and community.Now 2 Tiers available for community support!Tier 1: Monthly themes, Daily posts/audios from Sue, discussion threads @Circle, 1 monthly group call (month-by-month $39)Tier 2: Full support, 8 group calls per month, extensive library (+Tier 1 benefits)$99 month-by-month or $49 in 6 month pkgs.Creating Confidence OptionsUNSCHOOLING 101 CourseMath WITHOUT Curriculum CourseUnschooling Transcript CourseSeasonal Unschooling Guides Strewing CalendarsPri...
Unschooling the Olympics: No Curriculum Needed | 202
When the Olympics roll around, it’s easy to feel pressure to “do something educational.”You don’t need a unit study, curriculum, or lesson plan for real learning to happen.Big cultural events like the Olympics are already rich with opportunities for curiosity, connection, and noticing — if you let them be. In this episode, Sue talks about how to strew the Olympics: leaving learning invitations available without turning them into lessons or checklists.You’ll hear what strewing actually looks like in everyday life, how to follow interest without forcing it, and why resisting the urge to document or capture learning often creates more space for it to happen naturally.Whether your kids are glued to the events or barely paying attention, this conversation will help you relax and trust that learning doesn’t need to be organized to be meaningful.Resources mentioned: The Strewing Guide and Strewing Calendar — both included inside the Creating Confidence Membership.Strewing GuideStrewing CalendarCreating Confidence MembershipLet me know what you think of this!Support the show_____________________________________________________You don't have to do this alone.Creating Confidence Community Support!Whether you prefer daily encouragement or a supportive community with live coaching, you can explore it all and see what fits your family best.Choose the level of support that fits you best—from daily encouragement to live coaching and community.Now 2 Tiers available for community support!Tier 1: Monthly themes, Daily posts/audios from Sue, discussion threads @Circle, 1 monthly group call (month-by-month $39)Tier 2: Full support, 8 group calls per month, extensive library (+Tier 1 benefits)$99 month-by-month or $49 in 6 month pkgs.Creating Confidence OptionsUNSCHOOLING 101 CourseMath WITHOUT Curriculum CourseUnschooling Transcript CourseSeasonal Unschooling Guides Strewing CalendarsPri...
I Want to Do More to Teach — Why That Feeling Shows Up | 201
Feeling lost about teaching is common when you step away from school. Sue Patterson explores why the urge to teach more keeps showing up — and why learning doesn’t depend on parents doing more teaching, but on staying focused on the learner.__________________“I want to do more to teach, but I feel lost.”If that thought has crossed your mind, you’re not the only one. That feeling often shows up when you step away from school-based learning and realize you’re still carrying old ideas about what teaching is supposed to look like.Let’s talk about why parents feel lost when they start on the unschooling path, how we’ve been conditioned to believe learning only happens when someone is teaching, and what to focus on instead when your days don’t look like school. This is a calm, reassuring conversation for parents who are doing something unconventional — and want steadier footing without more pressure.Additional Unschooling Support:If you’d like more examples and a little support, you’ll find related resources here: Blogpost: "I Want to Do More to Teach" — Why that feels so confusingDeschooling Toolkit (for that 365 Days of Deschooling guide) Creating Confidence membershipLet me know what you think of this!Support the show_____________________________________________________You don't have to do this alone.Creating Confidence Community Support!Whether you prefer daily encouragement or a supportive community with live coaching, you can explore it all and see what fits your family best.Choose the level of support that fits you best—from daily encouragement to live coaching and community.Now 2 Tiers available for community support!Tier 1: Monthly themes, Daily posts/audios from Sue, discussion threads @Circle, 1 monthly group call (month-by-month $39)Tier 2: Full support, 8 group calls per month, extensive library (+Tier 1 benefits)$99 month-by-month or $49 in 6 month pkgs.Creating Confidence OptionsUNSCHOOLING 101 CourseMath WITHOUT Curriculum CourseUnschooling Transcript CourseSeasonal Unschooling Guides Strewing CalendarsPri...
Learning from Dragons - Without Planning a Thing! | 200
How do kids really learn without curriculum?What if learning is hiding in the things we almost dismiss as “just for fun”?Let's use Appreciate a Dragon Day as a real-life example of how learning shows up naturally — through curiosity, imagination, conversation, and play — without planning lessons or following a curriculum.Parents exploring unschooling or questioning traditional homeschooling can learning how to notice learning instead of trying to engineer it.You’ll hear about:How everyday interests connect to real learningWhy play, storytelling, and imagination matterWhat learning without curriculum actually looks likeHow to see subjects woven into ordinary momentsFor more ideas and specific ways to weave multiple subjects into a day, check out the blogpost with 10 creative ways unschooling shows up through dragons here:https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/what-do-dragons-and-homeschooling-have-in-commonYou can read the transcript at this link too. 📅 Want daily sparks like this — without having to come up with them yourself? The Strewing Calendar delivers interesting ideas and everyday celebrations that invite curiosity and connection all year long:https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/category/Strewing-Calendar-Subscriptions Let me know what you think of this!Support the show_____________________________________________________You don't have to do this alone.Creating Confidence Community Support!Whether you prefer daily encouragement or a supportive community with live coaching, you can explore it all and see what fits your family best.Choose the level of support that fits you best—from daily encouragement to live coaching and community.Now 2 Tiers available for community support!Tier 1: Monthly themes, Daily posts/audios from Sue, discussion threads @Circle, 1 monthly group call (month-by-month $39)Tier 2: Full support, 8 group calls per month, extensive library (+Tier 1 benefits)$99 month-by-month or $49 in 6 month pkgs.Creating Confidence OptionsUNSCHOOLING 101 CourseMath WITHOUT Curriculum CourseUnschooling Transcript CourseSeasonal Unschooling Guides Strewing CalendarsPri...
Why Deschooling Is Really for Parents: Letting Go of Schoolish Thinking | 199
Many parents expect deschooling to work like a big reset button — pull kids out of school, give it a little time, and everything will fall into place.But when kids seem to be “vegging out,” parents often panic: Is this really how it’s supposed to work?In this episode, I unpack what’s actually happening in those moments — and why that panic makes sense.Leaving school doesn’t automatically erase the habits we learned growing up. Even when unschooling feels right, school-shaped ideas about productivity, pace, comparison, and structure can quietly shape how we interpret learning at home.We’ll talk about:Why deschooling isn’t instant — and why that’s normalWhat kids are actually doing when it looks like “nothing”Why deschooling is active parent work, not passive waitingHow connection, partnership, and shared life replace school-based frameworksWhy successful deschooling doesn’t lead kids back to school thinking — it helps school fade into the background entirelyDeschooling isn’t about rejecting learning. It’s about letting go of patterns that belonged to a system built for sameness — not real families.Read Transcript at the Bloghttps://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/why-deschooling-is-really-for-parents____________________________DESCHOOLING TOOLKIT - for kids and parents!The practical support resource for parents who find themselves in that in-between space — where unschooling makes sense, but school-shaped thinking keeps creeping back in.The Deschooling Toolkit is a collection of parent supports designed to walk alongside you as you step away from system-focused ideas and sort through what actually supports your family’s learning now. It includes:365 Days of Deschooling — gentle, real-life prompts for kids and familiesA Parent Deschooling Guide — to help you recognize school-conditioned habits and rethink them intentionallyDeschooling Affirmation Cards — steady reminders for moments when doubt or outside pressure shows upThere’s no schedule to follow and nothing to “complete.” You can return to it whenever old patterns surface.The Deschooling Toolkit is included with Creating Confience Membership, or as a standalone resource.Learn more at: https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/product/Deschooling-ToolkitLet me know what you think of this!Support the show_____________________________________________________You don't have to do this alone.Creating Confidence Community Support!Whether you prefer daily encouragement or a supportive community with live coaching, you can explore it all and see what fits your family best.Choose the level of support that fits you best—from daily encouragement to live coaching and community.Now 2 Tiers available for community support!Tier 1: Monthly themes, Daily posts/audios from Sue, discussion threads @Circle, 1 monthly group call (month-by-month $39)Tier 2: Full support, 8 group calls per month, extensive library (+Tier 1 benefits)$99 month-by-month or $49 in 6 month pkgs.Creating Confidence OptionsUNSCHOOLING 101 CourseMath WITHOUT Curriculum CourseUnschooling Transcript CourseSeasonal Unschooling Guides Strewing CalendarsPri...
When School-at-Home Homeschooling Stops Working | 198
When traditional homeschooling stops working, there’s nothing wrong with exploring your options. The Unschooling 101 mini-course can help. Let’s talk about what’s going on together.-> Unschooling 101-> Creating Confidence Membership (Unschooling 101 is included)___________________________If you’ve been homeschooling for a while — especially in a more traditional or school-at-home way — there often comes a point when it just doesn’t feel like it’s working anymore.Not because you’re doing something wrong.Not because your kids are failing.But because the structure you started doesn’t fit your family.In this episode, Sue Patterson talks through what it really means when traditional homeschooling stops working. She explores why so many families reach this place, why it often shows up midyear, and why unschooling frequently enters the conversation at this stage.You’ll hear about the difference between homeschooling and unschooling, what “deschooling” actually looks like in real life, and why questioning your current approach is a thoughtful, responsible response — not a failure. This episode is especially helpful if you’re searching for alternatives to traditional homeschooling or trying to understand whether unschooling might be a better fit for your family.Rather than offering quick fixes or rigid plans, this conversation focuses on clarity, reassurance, and next steps you can take without panic or pressure. If homeschooling isn’t working the way you expected and you’re wondering what comes next, this episode will help you slow down, make sense of what you’re noticing, and feel less alone as you explore your options.Sue also shares how the Unschooling 101 mini-course can support parents who want a practical, grounded introduction to unschooling — especially those transitioning away from school-at-home methods and looking for a clearer understanding of what unschooling actually looks like day to day.Read the Transcript at the blogLet me know what you think of this!Support the show_____________________________________________________You don't have to do this alone.Creating Confidence Community Support!Whether you prefer daily encouragement or a supportive community with live coaching, you can explore it all and see what fits your family best.Choose the level of support that fits you best—from daily encouragement to live coaching and community.Now 2 Tiers available for community support!Tier 1: Monthly themes, Daily posts/audios from Sue, discussion threads @Circle, 1 monthly group call (month-by-month $39)Tier 2: Full support, 8 group calls per month, extensive library (+Tier 1 benefits)$99 month-by-month or $49 in 6 month pkgs.Creating Confidence OptionsUNSCHOOLING 101 CourseMath WITHOUT Curriculum CourseUnschooling Transcript CourseSeasonal Unschooling Guides Strewing CalendarsPri...
197 - Let Winter Be Winter: Resist Rushing into January
This post-holiday stretch can make even confident homeschooling and unschooling parents second-guess everything. But winter isn’t the time to push harder — even though everything around us insists we need to ‘get back on track.So what if we took a different approach?If the last semester felt less than stellar, it may not need a complete overhaul. It often just means real life showed up — and winter is asking for something different. This episode invites you to slow down, reflect clearly, and notice what’s actually true beneath the fear, guilt, and January noise.We talk about:why winter has never been a season of pushinghow stress and fear can distort how we remember “how things went”why reflection gives us better information than rushing to fixhow learning often looks quieter in winter — and why that still countsThis is not about planning or starting over. It’s about letting winter be winter — and giving yourself permission to pause.Read TranscriptIf you’d like a little more support right now, here are a few gentle options:• New Year’s Bundle (Guides + Kids’ Video Interviews) 👉 https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/product/New-Years-Bundle• Discounted Private Coaching Calls (January too) 👉 http://www.suepatterson.as.me/december• Seasonal Unschooling Guide: Winter 👉 https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/product/Seasonal-Unschooling-Guide-WinterAnd this Friday, January 2nd, I’ll be live on YouTube talking openly about the different kinds of support that exist for unschooling families — free and paid, mine and others’. No pitch, just information. You’re welcome to come listen or ask questions. http://www.youtube.com/c/UnschoolingMom2MomYou don’t have to have it all figured out — just stay connected.Let me know what you think of this!Support the show_____________________________________________________You don't have to do this alone.Creating Confidence Community Support!Whether you prefer daily encouragement or a supportive community with live coaching, you can explore it all and see what fits your family best.Choose the level of support that fits you best—from daily encouragement to live coaching and community.Now 2 Tiers available for community support!Tier 1: Monthly themes, Daily posts/audios from Sue, discussion threads @Circle, 1 monthly group call (month-by-month $39)Tier 2: Full support, 8 group calls per month, extensive library (+Tier 1 benefits)$99 month-by-month or $49 in 6 month pkgs.Creating Confidence OptionsUNSCHOOLING 101 CourseMath WITHOUT Curriculum CourseUnschooling Transcript CourseSeasonal Unschooling Guides Strewing CalendarsPri...
196 - Unschooling in December: What Typical Days Really Look Like
Unschooling in December doesn’t mean “taking a break from learning.” In this episode, Sue Patterson shares what typical unschooling days really look like during the holidays—slow mornings, cozy rhythms, spontaneous learning, busy outings, and the kinds of meaningful life experiences that traditional schooling often pushes aside.If you’ve wondered how unschooling families handle December, or if you’re transitioning away from school and worried about “falling behind,” this conversation will help you see how much learning naturally shows up through holiday activities, connection, play, creativity, and real life.You’ll learn:What unschooling days actually look like in DecemberHow to see academic learning through holiday traditionsWhy kids learn more when the pressure is liftedHow to stop the “catching up later” worryWhy connection and rest matter more than checklistsHow busy families can still unschool joyfullyWays to notice the learning that’s already happeningThis episode is perfect for new unschoolers, almost-unschoolers, or any parent who dreams of a calmer, more connected December.Transcript at the Blog🎁 UNSCHOOLING RESOURCES:Holiday Unschooling Bundle (4 Guides)Everything you need to navigate December:Holiday Learning • Coping with Critics • Winter Guide • New Year’s Workbook https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/product/Unschooling-Holiday-Bundle-2025Want help unschooling through the holidays?Join the Creating Confidence Membership for coaching, community, and ongoing support. Special link (no sign-up fee): https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/podcast-friends❤️ Stay ConnectedFree 7 Day Unschooling Holidays Challenge - starting this week on my email list! https://unschooling-mom2mom.kit.com/6651324494Private coaching with Sue - December Special: https://www.suepatterson.as.me/DecemberUnschooling Holiday Hubhttps://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/holidaysLet me know what you think of this!Support the show_____________________________________________________You don't have to do this alone.Creating Confidence Community Support!Whether you prefer daily encouragement or a supportive community with live coaching, you can explore it all and see what fits your family best.Choose the level of support that fits you best—from daily encouragement to live coaching and community.Now 2 Tiers available for community support!Tier 1: Monthly themes, Daily posts/audios from Sue, discussion threads @Circle, 1 monthly group call (month-by-month $39)Tier 2: Full support, 8 group calls per month, extensive library (+Tier 1 benefits)$99 month-by-month or $49 in 6 month pkgs.Creating Confidence OptionsUNSCHOOLING 101 CourseMath WITHOUT Curriculum CourseUnschooling Transcript CourseSeasonal Unschooling Guides Strewing CalendarsPri...
195 - Confused About Unschooling? Let’s Talk It Out
If you're having doubts or feeling overwhelmed, I have some options for you!You're not the only parent who enters December feeling confused about their homeschooling or unschooling choices. Sue Patterson shares nearly 30 years of experience here, offering reassurance and perspective. And even if you do need to pivot, you don’t have to figure it out alone.Unschooling is a practice — one small, brave decision at a time — and you don’t have to walk it alone.Links mentioned: • Discounted December Coaching Calls: http://www.suepatterson.as.me/december • Ask Sue Page: Tell me your Biggest Fear. Seriously. I'll answer • Transcript Blogpost: https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/unschooling-doubts-and-fearsLet me know what you think of this!Support the show_____________________________________________________You don't have to do this alone.Creating Confidence Community Support!Whether you prefer daily encouragement or a supportive community with live coaching, you can explore it all and see what fits your family best.Choose the level of support that fits you best—from daily encouragement to live coaching and community.Now 2 Tiers available for community support!Tier 1: Monthly themes, Daily posts/audios from Sue, discussion threads @Circle, 1 monthly group call (month-by-month $39)Tier 2: Full support, 8 group calls per month, extensive library (+Tier 1 benefits)$99 month-by-month or $49 in 6 month pkgs.Creating Confidence OptionsUNSCHOOLING 101 CourseMath WITHOUT Curriculum CourseUnschooling Transcript CourseSeasonal Unschooling Guides Strewing CalendarsPri...
194 - The Unschooling Roller Coaster & Why You Shouldn't Ride Alone!
Does unschooling feel like a roller coaster — some days confident, other days full of doubt? You’re not alone. This episode explores why the early stages feel so shaky and what actually helps parents feel steady again.We’ll talk about: • why deschooling feels so emotional and up-and-down • the hidden pressures that make you second-guess yourself • why doing this alone feels so much harder • what real, judgment-free support does for your confidence • stories from parents who finally stopped spiraling • why the holiday season magnifies everything — good and hardIf you’re tired of the internal wobble or wishing someone could walk with you through this stage, this conversation will help you breathe again.⭐ Black Friday Membership SaleIf you’ve been wanting support, this is the easiest week of the year to join the Unschooling Mom2Mom Membership. The discounted Black Friday price makes it simple to get the grounding, clarity, and community that make unschooling feel lighter.Monthly - 20% off!Annual - 56% off!!!Join here: https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/black-fridayLet me know what you think of this!Support the show_____________________________________________________You don't have to do this alone.Creating Confidence Community Support!Whether you prefer daily encouragement or a supportive community with live coaching, you can explore it all and see what fits your family best.Choose the level of support that fits you best—from daily encouragement to live coaching and community.Now 2 Tiers available for community support!Tier 1: Monthly themes, Daily posts/audios from Sue, discussion threads @Circle, 1 monthly group call (month-by-month $39)Tier 2: Full support, 8 group calls per month, extensive library (+Tier 1 benefits)$99 month-by-month or $49 in 6 month pkgs.Creating Confidence OptionsUNSCHOOLING 101 CourseMath WITHOUT Curriculum CourseUnschooling Transcript CourseSeasonal Unschooling Guides Strewing CalendarsPri...
193 - Your Thanksgiving Toolkit: 3 Tools to Handle Holiday Criticism
Worried about family questioning your unschooling over Thanksgiving?In this episode, Sue Patterson shares a simple Thanksgiving Toolkit to help you stay calm, grounded, and confident when the tough questions come. Grab 3 practical tools to steady yourself, respond (or not respond) with clarity, and keep the holiday peaceful for you and your kids.Thanksgiving Parent Bundle https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/product/Thanksgiving-Parent-BundleBlack Friday Deals for Sue's Membership https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/black-fridayLet me know what you think of this!Support the show_____________________________________________________You don't have to do this alone.Creating Confidence Community Support!Whether you prefer daily encouragement or a supportive community with live coaching, you can explore it all and see what fits your family best.Choose the level of support that fits you best—from daily encouragement to live coaching and community.Now 2 Tiers available for community support!Tier 1: Monthly themes, Daily posts/audios from Sue, discussion threads @Circle, 1 monthly group call (month-by-month $39)Tier 2: Full support, 8 group calls per month, extensive library (+Tier 1 benefits)$99 month-by-month or $49 in 6 month pkgs.Creating Confidence OptionsUNSCHOOLING 101 CourseMath WITHOUT Curriculum CourseUnschooling Transcript CourseSeasonal Unschooling Guides Strewing CalendarsPri...
192 - Staying Grounded During Holiday Stress (Unschooling Parents)
The holidays can bring up all kinds of emotions — especially when you’re the unschooling parent walking into a room where everyone has an opinion. And even if people mean well, their questions can still hit tender spots or stir up old schooling fears.In today’s episode, we’ll talk about how to stay grounded when family members question your unschooling choices. I’ll walk you through five simple, steadying tips you can lean on during awkward moments — the same ones I share with parents inside my membership when this season rolls around.You’ll learn: • why these conversations feel so intense • how to keep your calm without going into defense mode • what to remember when someone still doesn’t “get it” • ways to reconnect with your child and yourself afterward • how to stay confident even when the room feels tenseIf you want to go deeper and make this whole season feel lighter, here are a few helpful resources:🦃 Thanksgiving Learning BundleSimple, meaningful learning ideas to make Thanksgiving week feel connected — not stressful.🖤 Black Friday Membership Sale This is the only time all year the Creating Confidence Membership is discounted. If you’ve been needing support, community, and weekly coaching, this is your moment.🎄 Holiday Learning Bundle All the learning objectives identified in the typical festive activities so you can ENJOY December with any guilt about learning! I'll help you see it everywhere!The holidays don’t have to shake your confidence. You’ve got options, support, and tools — and you’re not doing this alone.Read the Transcript at the blogLet me know what you think of this!Support the show_____________________________________________________You don't have to do this alone.Creating Confidence Community Support!Whether you prefer daily encouragement or a supportive community with live coaching, you can explore it all and see what fits your family best.Choose the level of support that fits you best—from daily encouragement to live coaching and community.Now 2 Tiers available for community support!Tier 1: Monthly themes, Daily posts/audios from Sue, discussion threads @Circle, 1 monthly group call (month-by-month $39)Tier 2: Full support, 8 group calls per month, extensive library (+Tier 1 benefits)$99 month-by-month or $49 in 6 month pkgs.Creating Confidence OptionsUNSCHOOLING 101 CourseMath WITHOUT Curriculum CourseUnschooling Transcript CourseSeasonal Unschooling Guides Strewing CalendarsPri...
191 - When Your Child Plays All Day: Unschooling, Deschooling & Real Learning
Ever wonder if you’re doing enough when your child just wants to play all day — Legos, trampolines, video games — and you’re trying to trust unschooling? In this episode, Sue Patterson from Unschooling Mom2Mom answers a real email from a worried parent and explains: Why this “all play” phase is normal during deschooling, What’s actually happening in your child’s brain, How to shift from panic to partnership. How play builds real learning, Why motivation returns naturallyHow to support your child without slipping into passivity or overcontrol.BLACK FRIDAY SALE!Creating Confidence Membership - Only $39/month with no sign-up feeAnnual Membership - $299! - 76% off!Courses 50% off with Discount Code: BF2025All Unschooling Guides - only $99!! with Discount Code: BF2025___________________________Read the Transcript here: https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/is-play-enough-what-legos-trampolines-video-games-teach-us-about-learningLet me know what you think of this!Support the show_____________________________________________________You don't have to do this alone.Creating Confidence Community Support!Whether you prefer daily encouragement or a supportive community with live coaching, you can explore it all and see what fits your family best.Choose the level of support that fits you best—from daily encouragement to live coaching and community.Now 2 Tiers available for community support!Tier 1: Monthly themes, Daily posts/audios from Sue, discussion threads @Circle, 1 monthly group call (month-by-month $39)Tier 2: Full support, 8 group calls per month, extensive library (+Tier 1 benefits)$99 month-by-month or $49 in 6 month pkgs.Creating Confidence OptionsUNSCHOOLING 101 CourseMath WITHOUT Curriculum CourseUnschooling Transcript CourseSeasonal Unschooling Guides Strewing CalendarsPri...
190 - Unschooling and Gratitude: Noticing What’s Going Right
Feeling stretched thin — or wondering if you’re doing enough? You’re not alone.But I have something simple you can try:Let's look at Gratitude through and unschooling lens!In this episode, Sue Patterson from Unschooling Mom2Mom shares how shifting toward gratitude can calm the chaos and help you see how much is already working in your unschooling life.She has created an Unschooling and Gratitude Hub over at the website. You'll find so many tips and resources for bringing gratitude into your homes. You’ll learn how to spot real learning in everyday moments, model gratitude for your kids, and rebuild calm and connection at home — without adding another “to-do.”💛 Explore the Unschooling & Gratitude Hub for practical tools, videos, and journaling prompts: unschoolingmom2mom.com/unschooling-and-gratitudeThe transcript for this podcast is also at the HubOTHER RESOURCES MENTIONED: Unschooling Guide: Gratitude15 Day Gratitude Challenge: In the membershipUnschooling Mom2Mom Pinterest Board: GratitudeUnschooling Mom2Mom YouTube Playlist: Unschooling GratitudeLet me know what you think of this!Support the show_____________________________________________________You don't have to do this alone.Creating Confidence Community Support!Whether you prefer daily encouragement or a supportive community with live coaching, you can explore it all and see what fits your family best.Choose the level of support that fits you best—from daily encouragement to live coaching and community.Now 2 Tiers available for community support!Tier 1: Monthly themes, Daily posts/audios from Sue, discussion threads @Circle, 1 monthly group call (month-by-month $39)Tier 2: Full support, 8 group calls per month, extensive library (+Tier 1 benefits)$99 month-by-month or $49 in 6 month pkgs.Creating Confidence OptionsUNSCHOOLING 101 CourseMath WITHOUT Curriculum CourseUnschooling Transcript CourseSeasonal Unschooling Guides Strewing CalendarsPri...
#189 - How to Start Unschooling (Without Trying Every Homeschool Method First)
Thinking about unschooling but wondering if you have to “try everything else first”? You don’t. 💛In this episode, Sue Patterson from Unschooling Mom2Mom shares a gentle pep talk for parents who feel called toward unschooling but still hesitate. Maybe you’re waiting for the right method, the right time, or the right confidence — but what if you’re already ready enough?Sue unpacks common fears, clears up misinformation from the homeschooling community, and reminds you that unschooling isn’t extreme — it’s human.👉 Visit UnschoolingMom2Mom.com for more resources, and join the Creating Confidence Membership for weekly support and encouragement. (Discounted for Podcast listeners - no sign-up fee!)Read the Transcript here: https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/the-path-to-unschooling-how-to-know-when-youre-ready-to-startLet me know what you think of this!Support the show_____________________________________________________You don't have to do this alone.Creating Confidence Community Support!Whether you prefer daily encouragement or a supportive community with live coaching, you can explore it all and see what fits your family best.Choose the level of support that fits you best—from daily encouragement to live coaching and community.Now 2 Tiers available for community support!Tier 1: Monthly themes, Daily posts/audios from Sue, discussion threads @Circle, 1 monthly group call (month-by-month $39)Tier 2: Full support, 8 group calls per month, extensive library (+Tier 1 benefits)$99 month-by-month or $49 in 6 month pkgs.Creating Confidence OptionsUNSCHOOLING 101 CourseMath WITHOUT Curriculum CourseUnschooling Transcript CourseSeasonal Unschooling Guides Strewing CalendarsPri...
#188 - Unschooling Halloween: Everyday Learning in Disguise
Unschooling + Halloween = real learning. 🎃 Discover how curiosity, culture, and connection replace curriculum this week with Sue Patterson’s gentle guidance.__________________________No Need to Pause Learning — Halloween Is the Lesson!Ever wonder how you’re going to celebrate holidays — like Halloween or Día de los Muertos — and fit in the lessons you planned for the week? 🎃 Here’s the secret: you don’t have to choose. The holiday is the lesson.In this week’s Unschooling Mom2Mom Podcast episode, Sue shows how these fall celebrations are filled with real learning opportunities — from spooky storytelling and candy math to science, art, and cultural history. You’ll see how learning weaves naturally into family traditions when you slow down, stay curious, and let the season lead the way.Whether you’re almost unschooling or a (usually) confident unschooler, this conversation will help you relax, reconnect, and see the everyday learning that’s already happening all around you.🎃 Inside the Episode:How to let Halloween be the lessonSubject-by-subject learning ideas (Language Arts, Math, Science, Fine Arts, and Social Studies)Día de los Muertos projects that connect heart, history, and creativityHow connection teaches more than curriculum ever could💡 Resources Mentioned:Blog post: Unschooling & Halloween Hub🎧 “An Unschooler’s Haunted House” — a fun, spooky throwback episode🍂 Seasonal Unschooling Guide for Autumn📅 November Strewing Calendar — packed with easy ideas + a private portal showing the learning behind them✨ Subscribe on YouTube or your favorite podcast app for weekly encouragement — and remember, pausing curriculum doesn't mean pausing LEARNING.Holidays can BE the lessons! Let me know what you think of this!Support the show_____________________________________________________You don't have to do this alone.Creating Confidence Community Support!Whether you prefer daily encouragement or a supportive community with live coaching, you can explore it all and see what fits your family best.Choose the level of support that fits you best—from daily encouragement to live coaching and community.Now 2 Tiers available for community support!Tier 1: Monthly themes, Daily posts/audios from Sue, discussion threads @Circle, 1 monthly group call (month-by-month $39)Tier 2: Full support, 8 group calls per month, extensive library (+Tier 1 benefits)$99 month-by-month or $49 in 6 month pkgs.Creating Confidence OptionsUNSCHOOLING 101 CourseMath WITHOUT Curriculum CourseUnschooling Transcript CourseSeasonal Unschooling Guides Strewing CalendarsPri...
#187 But I Want a CHECKLIST! Letting Go of School Habits in Unschooling
Watch Video Version HereStill searching for a checklist to prove you’re “doing it right”?In this episode, Sue Patterson breaks down why unschooling doesn’t come with boxes to check — and why that’s both scary and freeing. Join a coaching-call-inspired conversation about the brain’s habit of seeking structure, why we feel compelled to “perform” as parents, and how we can shift from tracking tasks to checking connection. If you’re a parent moving away from school-style validation toward real life learning, this episode will help you reframe success, reconnect with your child, and trust your own rhythm.Keywords: unschooling, deschooling, homeschooling, checklist mentality, parenting without curriculum, connection over structure, unschooling parents, free-range learning, trusting your rhythmYou’ll learn:Why our obsession with checklists comes from a school-brain still wired for “right answers”How unschooling challenges that structure — and what to do insteadA simple daily question to replace “Did I finish the list?” with “Did we connect today?”Why “progress” looks different in unschooling — and how to see what’s realResources mentioned:365 Days of DeschoolingSeasonal Unschooling Guides Strewing CalendarCreating Confidence Unschooling Membership (community & coaching)Tune in to reset your checklist culture and rediscover freedom, curiosity, and trust in learning together.Listen now on all major podcast platforms.Read the transcript here at the Unschooling Mom2Mom Blog.Let me know what you think of this!Support the show_____________________________________________________You don't have to do this alone.Creating Confidence Community Support!Whether you prefer daily encouragement or a supportive community with live coaching, you can explore it all and see what fits your family best.Choose the level of support that fits you best—from daily encouragement to live coaching and community.Now 2 Tiers available for community support!Tier 1: Monthly themes, Daily posts/audios from Sue, discussion threads @Circle, 1 monthly group call (month-by-month $39)Tier 2: Full support, 8 group calls per month, extensive library (+Tier 1 benefits)$99 month-by-month or $49 in 6 month pkgs.Creating Confidence OptionsUNSCHOOLING 101 CourseMath WITHOUT Curriculum CourseUnschooling Transcript CourseSeasonal Unschooling Guides Strewing CalendarsPri...
186 - Too Late to Unschool Teens?
(Spoiler: It’s Not) 🎁 Grab the Free PDF: 20 Reasons It’s Time to Unschool Your TeenIf your teen is burned out, unmotivated, or just done with school, you’re not alone. So many parents wonder if it’s too late to change direction — too late to repair connection, too late to make learning joyful again.Sue Patterson shares what you need to know: ✨ It’s not too late — it’s right on time.You’ll hear why teens can still thrive with unschooling, how real learning never depended on school, and how rebuilding trust and curiosity at home changes everything. Get all the resources for parents of teens in Sue's Creating Confidence Membership Group💚 Resources You Need: Homeschooled Teens book → https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/product/homeschooled-teens-bookFree companion guide: 20 Reasons It’s Time to Unschool Your TeenTranscripts Course → https://suepatterson-unschooling.thinkific.com/courses/unschooling-transcriptsCreating Confidence Membership → Get all the resources for parents of teens in Sue's Creating Confidence Membership Group https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/creating-confidence-membership🎧 Subscribe to the Unschooling Mom2Mom Podcast for weekly encouragement, real stories, and practical support on your unschooling journey.Let me know what you think of this!Support the show_____________________________________________________You don't have to do this alone.Creating Confidence Community Support!Whether you prefer daily encouragement or a supportive community with live coaching, you can explore it all and see what fits your family best.Choose the level of support that fits you best—from daily encouragement to live coaching and community.Now 2 Tiers available for community support!Tier 1: Monthly themes, Daily posts/audios from Sue, discussion threads @Circle, 1 monthly group call (month-by-month $39)Tier 2: Full support, 8 group calls per month, extensive library (+Tier 1 benefits)$99 month-by-month or $49 in 6 month pkgs.Creating Confidence OptionsUNSCHOOLING 101 CourseMath WITHOUT Curriculum CourseUnschooling Transcript CourseSeasonal Unschooling Guides Strewing CalendarsPri...
185 - How Kids Learn to Make Decisions — The Unschooling Way
Autonomy doesn’t grow from obedience — it grows from real life experience.In this episode, Sue Patterson shares how unschooled kids learn to weigh pros and cons, think through choices, and develop real decision-making confidence. You’ll explore what cost/benefit thinking looks like in everyday life — from messy art projects to sports teams and video games — and why stepping back as a parent creates space for growth. Learn how unschooling gives kids the practice they need to trust themselves, one choice at a time.MORE ABOUT THE MEMBERSHIPLet me know what you think of this!Support the show_____________________________________________________You don't have to do this alone.Creating Confidence Community Support!Whether you prefer daily encouragement or a supportive community with live coaching, you can explore it all and see what fits your family best.Choose the level of support that fits you best—from daily encouragement to live coaching and community.Now 2 Tiers available for community support!Tier 1: Monthly themes, Daily posts/audios from Sue, discussion threads @Circle, 1 monthly group call (month-by-month $39)Tier 2: Full support, 8 group calls per month, extensive library (+Tier 1 benefits)$99 month-by-month or $49 in 6 month pkgs.Creating Confidence OptionsUNSCHOOLING 101 CourseMath WITHOUT Curriculum CourseUnschooling Transcript CourseSeasonal Unschooling Guides Strewing CalendarsPri...
#184 - Shaky Start? Pivot Homeschool to Unschooling (+ Q & A)
Shaky start with homeschooling? You’re not failing—the plan is. Sue Patterson shares how to pivot from “school at home” to unschooling with confidence, reframe the “basics,” and calm the September wobble. + Q&A and resources to help right now.___________________________LAST DAY SALEUnschooling Mom2Mom Parent Toolkit: ALL 25 guides = $99 👉 https://suepatterson-unschooling.thinkific.com/courses/guidesAnnual Membership Sale: Year-round support with Sue & the community (group coaching, Q&As, 30-day deschooling challenge replays, and parent support). 👉 https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/product/Annual-Membership-NOT-Back-to-School-Sale_____________________Those first weeks can feel shaky—kids resist, plans unravel, and the “Am I doing enough?” spiral kicks in. In this expanded episode, Sue explains why early plans collapse (hint: school conditioning), how to see resistance as feedback, and simple ways to pivot toward connection, curiosity, and real learning at home.You’ll learn: – Why “school at home” breaks down + what works – How kids learn reading, writing, and math in real life (no power struggles) – When things feel dull or screens dominate – A mindset check to quiet the doubts – Balancing expectations – What “letting kids lead” looks likeQ&A: pivot vs sticking with it | child-led” in practice | “falling behind” & the basics | resistance & grit | balancing expectationsRESOURCES: Unschooling 101: https://suepatterson-unschooling.thinkific.com/courses/Unschooling101 Unschooling Math: https://suepatterson-unschooling.thinkific.com/courses/unschooling-math Technology Guide: https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/product/Technology Dealing with Critics: https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/product/Critics-&-Naysayers Gratitude/Family Culture: https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/product/GratitudeLet me know what you think of this!Support the show_____________________________________________________You don't have to do this alone.Creating Confidence Community Support!Whether you prefer daily encouragement or a supportive community with live coaching, you can explore it all and see what fits your family best.Choose the level of support that fits you best—from daily encouragement to live coaching and community.Now 2 Tiers available for community support!Tier 1: Monthly themes, Daily posts/audios from Sue, discussion threads @Circle, 1 monthly group call (month-by-month $39)Tier 2: Full support, 8 group calls per month, extensive library (+Tier 1 benefits)$99 month-by-month or $49 in 6 month pkgs.Creating Confidence OptionsUNSCHOOLING 101 CourseMath WITHOUT Curriculum CourseUnschooling Transcript CourseSeasonal Unschooling Guides Strewing CalendarsPri...
#183 Am I Doing Enough? When Curriculum Isn’t Working Like You Hoped
Worried you’re not doing enough as an unschooling parent? In this episode, Sue Patterson tackles common doubts about reading, math, technology, and “falling behind.” Learn how to reframe fears, spot real learning, and build confidence — plus hear about the Unschooling Parent Toolkit - with 25 Guides - to help you every step of the way.Are you lying awake at night wondering: Am I doing enough for my kids? You’re not alone. Let's dive into the doubts that creep in when families move away from traditional homeschooling and into unschooling - and find some SOLUTIONS!You’ll hear why worries about reading, math, technology, and “falling behind” show up for nearly every parent — and how to reframe them so you can see the real learning that’s happening in your home. Sue shares practical examples from everyday life, mindset shifts that help you shake off school conditioning, and encouragement from her 30+ years of unschooling experience.👉 And if you’re ready for deeper support, check out the Unschooling Mom2Mom Parent Toolkit — 25 step-by-step guides covering academics, technology, socialization, critics, seasonal learning, and more. Get ALL 25 Unschooling Guides for only $99 - through September 30. https://suepatterson-unschooling.thinkific.com/courses/guidesNormally $400 if purchased individually, the complete set is available through September 30th for just $99.Let me know what you think of this!Support the show_____________________________________________________You don't have to do this alone.Creating Confidence Community Support!Whether you prefer daily encouragement or a supportive community with live coaching, you can explore it all and see what fits your family best.Choose the level of support that fits you best—from daily encouragement to live coaching and community.Now 2 Tiers available for community support!Tier 1: Monthly themes, Daily posts/audios from Sue, discussion threads @Circle, 1 monthly group call (month-by-month $39)Tier 2: Full support, 8 group calls per month, extensive library (+Tier 1 benefits)$99 month-by-month or $49 in 6 month pkgs.Creating Confidence OptionsUNSCHOOLING 101 CourseMath WITHOUT Curriculum CourseUnschooling Transcript CourseSeasonal Unschooling Guides Strewing CalendarsPri...
#182 - School Skipped These Lessons - but Life Didn't!
We spent 12 years in school but left unprepared for real life — because school skipped the lessons that actually matter. In this episode, Sue Patterson shares 10 life skills adults wish they had learned in school, from money management and stress relief to media literacy and relationships. You’ll also hear how unschooling gives families the freedom to focus on these real-world skills naturally, without waiting until adulthood.👉 Want support while you make unschooling work for your family? Join the Unschooling Mom2Mom Membership — the Annual NOT Back to School Sale is happening for one more week! Don't miss it!https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/product/Annual-Membership-NOT-Back-to-School-SaleLet me know what you think of this!Support the show_____________________________________________________You don't have to do this alone.Creating Confidence Community Support!Whether you prefer daily encouragement or a supportive community with live coaching, you can explore it all and see what fits your family best.Choose the level of support that fits you best—from daily encouragement to live coaching and community.Now 2 Tiers available for community support!Tier 1: Monthly themes, Daily posts/audios from Sue, discussion threads @Circle, 1 monthly group call (month-by-month $39)Tier 2: Full support, 8 group calls per month, extensive library (+Tier 1 benefits)$99 month-by-month or $49 in 6 month pkgs.Creating Confidence OptionsUNSCHOOLING 101 CourseMath WITHOUT Curriculum CourseUnschooling Transcript CourseSeasonal Unschooling Guides Strewing CalendarsPri...
#181 How Unschoolers Learn the Basics Without Curriculum: Unschooling the 3Rs
“I love unschooling — but I want my kids to know the basics first.” Sound familiar?If you're worried how your kids will learn those 3Rs — reading, writing, and math — especially if you choose to unschool, Sue Patterson will help you see how unschooling works WITHOUT wasting money on curriculum! Unschooling basics unfold naturally through everyday life — cooking, gaming, texting, problem-solving, and pursuing hobbies. Instead of relying on worksheets or pre-set classes, unschoolers build real skills through self-directed learning. Reading, writing, and math become meaningful when connected to real-world experiences. This podcast can help you reframe what what you're seeing!We’ll talk about:How unschoolers learn to read and write without formal lessonsWhy everyday life provides endless opportunities for unschooling mathHow unschooling develops critical thinking, communication, and life skillsWhy unschooling covers “the basics” more deeply than traditional curriculum ever couldAnd even how insisting on “basics first” can unintentionally gatekeep curiosity and delay growth.Whether you’re just starting your unschooling journey or you’re worried your child isn’t “academically ready” to self-direct, this episode will reassure you!Unschoolers don't ignore The Basics — they reframe the starting point AND the path to get there.Resources to dive deeper: • Free PDF: A guide to reframing the basics for today’s worldhttps://unschooling-mom2mom.kit.com/07851be0ac • Reading, Writing & Math Guides (bundle available)Tune in to see how unschooling can trust the fundamentals and let curiosity lead.Let me know what you think of this!Support the show_____________________________________________________You don't have to do this alone.Creating Confidence Community Support!Whether you prefer daily encouragement or a supportive community with live coaching, you can explore it all and see what fits your family best.Choose the level of support that fits you best—from daily encouragement to live coaching and community.Now 2 Tiers available for community support!Tier 1: Monthly themes, Daily posts/audios from Sue, discussion threads @Circle, 1 monthly group call (month-by-month $39)Tier 2: Full support, 8 group calls per month, extensive library (+Tier 1 benefits)$99 month-by-month or $49 in 6 month pkgs.Creating Confidence OptionsUNSCHOOLING 101 CourseMath WITHOUT Curriculum CourseUnschooling Transcript CourseSeasonal Unschooling Guides Strewing CalendarsPri...